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Why it's sometimes better not to discuss science.

Bram Kaandorp

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Here's a summary of some things I experienced in a discussion about evolution. I thought they might be entertaining, maybe even helpful. Though maybe mainly saddening.

I had an argument with someone on an occult forum (this was before I embraced scepticism, and was still trying to be a constructive member of an occult/spiritual forum) with someone who thought that humans are on our planet longer than "main stream" scientists claim (al the while not questioning the age of the earth as calculated by those same scientists), and that any scientist who comes to a different conclusion is discredited as a scientist by the community. Not because he uses bad science, but because his results don't follow the Darwinian dogma (she never used the word dogma, but it was always heavily implied that main stream science has a fixed idea of things, to which all facts must conform).

The ever familiar pseudo arguments such as "the eye evolution impossibility" are also present.

She uses the abundance of oxygen on the early earth (and its effects on growth in insects) to show that “human giants might have lived”, linking into the idea of the giant skulls found around the world.

She thinks that certain shapes are inherent in nature, as "evidenced" by the many rocks with human faces, or the shape of horses in stones, using it as proof that there is some "design" in nature.

She also has the belief that aliens came here, and changed human DNA, to how we are now. However, she vehemently denied ever having implied DNA. (Then again, how else can you add rhesus monkey traits to humans?)

That's the things she believes, now for some default rambling;

A phrase which stayed with me, which really defines all her posts is "Which source does the truth come from?" in response to me asking for sources to an article's conclusion, implying that there is no “one truth”, (practically undermining her idea that the evolution theories are wrong).

Another point that came up was that: "believing in evolution impedes further investigation, because research into things which might contradict evolution will be disregarded".

Any and all attempts by me to point out that, not only was her logic flawed, but her sources were flawed as well, were swept away with non-arguments, such as "that's what main stream science wants you to think".

It suffices to say that I have stopped arguing in the thread when most people in the thread were supporting the anti-evolution standpoint, merely because they found me too rigid in my support of science.

Yes, it sounds like I'm saying “she was calling me names and she didn't take me seriously”. Sure, I felt made fun of. So would anyone, if thinks such as “I hope you will someday meet the aliens, and see the light” are said when you are trying to have a good discussion.

I think that there is just one lesson to be taken from this:

Never try to talk science on a forums where personal experience is seen as equal (or even greater to) scientific observations.
 
This is but a special case of "Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, and the pig gets to enjoy it."
 
This is but a special case of "Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, and the pig gets to enjoy it."

Well, I don't really think there was much enjoyment from both sides in the end.

This was more two people trying to tell each other something which they both hold true. The main reason why the discussion kept on was (and this is post-hoc, so probably a bit flawed) that both of us saw it as our "duty" to educate everyone. In the end I let her keep her blend of truth, so that I could go on to more productive things.

Cheers
 
Well, I don't really think there was much enjoyment from both sides in the end.

This was more two people trying to tell each other something which they both hold true. The main reason why the discussion kept on was (and this is post-hoc, so probably a bit flawed) that both of us saw it as our "duty" to educate everyone. In the end I let her keep her blend of truth, so that I could go on to more productive things.

Cheers

Maybe science should never be used at all. There is certainty that all science will some day be obsolete and new science will take its place.
 
It is a time old issue. People spend their entire lives convincing themselves they know how the world works. There are a number of reasons people choose not to question that conviction. Some dont want tobe told they are wrong, some want to put a motive on knowledge, some would rather life had meaning. Some are just jackasses who think they are right and consider anybody who disagrees with their particular view an enemy. The number of times I have had my politics questioned by people for suggesting they look at actual evidence is astonishing. To a guy at work I'm a godless communist, to my girlfriend I'm a weird hippy, to a person on Skeptoid I'm a catholic sympathising facist.

To most people I'm a kid who finds stuff interesting. Even if you think you know the answer it is always best to ask the question. It is better to proven wrong by facts than assume you are right with stubborness.
 
It is a time old issue. People spend their entire lives convincing themselves they know how the world works. There are a number of reasons people choose not to question that conviction. Some dont want tobe told they are wrong, some want to put a motive on knowledge, some would rather life had meaning. Some are just jackasses who think they are right and consider anybody who disagrees with their particular view an enemy. The number of times I have had my politics questioned by people for suggesting they look at actual evidence is astonishing. To a guy at work I'm a godless communist, to my girlfriend I'm a weird hippy, to a person on Skeptoid I'm a catholic sympathising facist.

To most people I'm a kid who finds stuff interesting. Even if you think you know the answer it is always best to ask the question. It is better to proven wrong by facts than assume you are right with stubborness.

Better to not ask the question and find out for yourself then.
 
Even if you think you know the answer it is always best to ask the question. It is better to proven wrong by facts than assume you are right with stubborness.

I absolutely agree.

As a matter of fact, on numerous occasions I have said that, if enough good evidence is presented, I will accept it.

It never came. Most evidence was either examples of "main stream scientists" getting something wrong, "proving" that main stream science as a whole is wrong, or it was "evidence" in the form of people giving their opinion on things (rock images and such) which could easily be explained by pareidolia, rather than grasping for divine intervention.

In short, this was an argument in which someone wanted to convince me with personal opinions, which is pointless.

Cheers
 
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Mainstream science contributed to the technologies that most people take for granted. Maybe those cultists should boycott that technology.
 
What I now wonder is:

Was there really nothing else I could have done? I try not to sound like a religious converter, because I'm not, but I really wonder whether there is any way to show these people that they are not the ones with the self proclaimed "open mind".

I think not, but then again, I haven't the experience many people on the forum have.
 
I disagree that "not discussing" anything is a "better" alternative. You're going to come across sacred cows, trolls and die hard believers. It is your decision on how to best use your time, be it making logical arguments or calling it a day. In the end, however, all you can do is make good arguments and not fall into traps and hope that when they are ready, they will remember that one good argument and have that question in their mind.

IMO it comes down to 2 points (pardon the false dichotomy, I'm simplifying), are you arguing a conclusion or are you trying to find a truth. If you are arguing the former, your logic will potentially be flawed and make any further logic in that path obsolete in the other persons mind. They will fixate on your wrongness and you will then spend perpetual amounts of time trying to undig yourself from that mistake. If your position is truth, and you are not rigid in your beliefs, then you will have a discussion not an argument.

Will that help the other person see the rational conclusion? Probably not, but your level of frustration will be reduced. IMO rational discussions should be like a corn maze. You could plow right through and get to the end and say "see I'm here" and all the other person will notice is all the corn you knocked over to get there. However, if you find yourself at a dead-end (logical fallacy) and you go back and find your way to a rational conclusion, the other person may still disagree but they won't be able to obfuscate the discussion with everything you got wrong.
 
I disagree that "not discussing" anything is a "better" alternative. You're going to come across sacred cows, trolls and die hard believers. It is your decision on how to best use your time, be it making logical arguments or calling it a day. In the end, however, all you can do is make good arguments and not fall into traps and hope that when they are ready, they will remember that one good argument and have that question in their mind.

IMO it comes down to 2 points (pardon the false dichotomy, I'm simplifying), are you arguing a conclusion or are you trying to find a truth. If you are arguing the former, your logic will potentially be flawed and make any further logic in that path obsolete in the other persons mind. They will fixate on your wrongness and you will then spend perpetual amounts of time trying to undig yourself from that mistake. If your position is truth, and you are not rigid in your beliefs, then you will have a discussion not an argument.

Will that help the other person see the rational conclusion? Probably not, but your level of frustration will be reduced. IMO rational discussions should be like a corn maze. You could plow right through and get to the end and say "see I'm here" and all the other person will notice is all the corn you knocked over to get there. However, if you find yourself at a dead-end (logical fallacy) and you go back and find your way to a rational conclusion, the other person may still disagree but they won't be able to obfuscate the discussion with everything you got wrong.

Although I totally agree, I think that in this case, it wouldn't matter.

The discussion was on a forum which had magical thinking at its fundamental (and I mean this in the same way as that JREF was critical thinking as its fundamental). The ever familiar "science can't explain everything" was ever present, and with that they had created a platform in which any statement along the lines of "that has never been confirmed" can be shrugged off as "cold rationalism trying to erode our experiences".

In such a situation it's simply useless to continue trying to use rational thinking, because ultimately, the magical thinkers will have the last word, merely because they can discard anything which doesn't jive with their experience.

At this point, I have totally given up on trying to say anything on that forum, and I have gone through all the grieving stages (or don't they exist?).

Thanks for the input though, I highly appreciate it.

Cheers
 
It is your decision on how to best use your time,
be it making logical arguments or...

In the end, however, all you can do is make good
arguments...

I'm new here to.

I've done that argument think just up the road from here.

It's been interesting!

In the end, I did make a "good", "logical" argument and have enjoyed the added success in the ongoing history in the making regarding the popular public debate and my small part therein.

The bantering, however, continues!
 

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