So if light has matter (photons)
No, not matter- mass. Just as you can think of "charge" as "that which is affected by an electromagnetic field," you can think of "mass" as "that which is affected by a gravity field." It's "gravity charge," if you will.
Zig made this point one way; I'll make it another, and between them, you should get a good idea. Here goes:
When something is moving, it has energy. You know this; throwing a rock at a window and breaking it tells you so. But the rock also has
rest mass; when you pick it up, you can feel that rest mass. All of a photon's energy is that energy of motion; it doesn't have anything else. If it stops moving, it stops existing.
But photons only move at the speed of light; how, then, you may ask, can there be photons with different amounts of energy? The answer is, photons only move at one speed, but they have different
wavelengths. The shorter the wavelength, the more energy they have.
Finally, you may ask, I've spoken here of a photon's
energy; what about its
mass? Remember, E=mc^2; energy equals mass times a big number. Energy and mass are
the same kind of thing. And we know that because nuclear weapons work.
HTH.
and light is an electro-magnetic phenomenon,
Yes, it is.
then do radio waves also have...radons? no, I guess photons too. Just at such a low rate that we can't see them.
More or less. "Low rate" = "low frequency" = "long wavelength."
Perhaps they are visible in the low infra red, at a very low 'volume'?
Zig's spectrum shows this nicely. Gamma rays, X-rays, ultraviolet, visible light, infrared, microwaves, radio- they're all the same "kind of thing." That thing is electromagnetic radiation. And they all move at the speed of light.
Lowest in that continuum would be gravity?
No, for two reasons. First, electromagnetic radiation is a different "kind of thing" than the electric field; they are associated, but not the same. In a similar way, gravity is a field; there is an associated radiation, gravity waves. We haven't unambiguously detected any gravity radiation yet, but relativity says it's there, and we are running experiments to try to detect it. Google up LIGO, the Laser Interferometer Gravity Observatory experiment. Second, the electromagnetic field and the gravity field (and electromagnetic radiation and gravity radiation too) are different "kinds of things." Gravity is a deformation of space and time; electromagnetism is not (or at least, not a deformation of the four dimensions we're used to; there is a theory out there called "string theory" that proposes that electromagnetism
is a deformation of a dimension, just not one we can see in the ordinary way; ask more questions if you're curious).
So, then I guess gravity would have photons too?
Well, sort of. If gravity really does make radiation (and we're pretty sure it does, even though we haven't detected any yet), then that's a hint that it might have its own sort of "photons," called "gravitons." But gravitons would have to be different from photons in several important ways, and we haven't even detected the radiation they build up into, much less gravitons themselves; in fact, we haven't even built a consistent theory that makes good predictions of what gravitons would be like. "String theory," "Loop Quantum Gravity," and "twistors" are three incomplete theories that might describe how gravitons are; none of them makes predictions yet that we can test. So we're still looking into that. But your analogy is at least partially apt, and it's the reason physicists think that eventually, we will find gravitons, and we will find a theory that describes them.
Since we know of four forces, and have quantum theories that describe three of them, if we find a quantum theory that describes gravity, we'll then have the pieces that should let us make a single overarching theory that combines the theories of all four forces into one. This overarching theory would then be a "theory of everything," or "TOE." Einstein thought that there had to be a theory that unified gravity and electromagnetism; it was called a "unified theory." He looked for it for many years, but never found it. While he was looking, we discovered two more forces, and it turned out to be easier to understand these two other forces than it has been to understand gravity. It could be that there is no quantum theory that describes gravity; but most physicists don't believe that. So they keep looking for that unified theory, that theory of everything. That's a great deal of what's going on in physics right now.