Skeptics and Prudishness

I'm missing something here. The article referred only to activity in "Toronto's kink and fetish scene". That's pretty vague, isn't it? Borderline meaningless? Then it goes to the relevant specifics: the exact aliases they used, which are as important as any other aliases used by scammers.
Agreed. It's not as if they named specific sites, groups, and clubs: "They were active in the Toronto fetish scene, attending events like the 2023 Rubber Nurse Gala and the 2024 All-Canada Lumberjack Off, and were frequently at The Black Hole Club, Chubb-E-Chaserz, and Tittapotamus. See photo spread of these venues and events page 3. Through 91."
 
Agreed. It's not as if they named specific sites, groups, and clubs: "They were active in the Toronto fetish scene, attending events like the 2023 Rubber Nurse Gala and the 2024 All-Canada Lumberjack Off, and were frequently at The Black Hole Club, Chubb-E-Chaserz, and Tittapotamus. See photo spread of these venues and events page 3. Through 91."
The OP referred to the Skeptic article, which said none of that. They said what I quoted.

The Tryee or whatever it was article had a long and detailed breakdown of everything these two were up to, and only briefly mentioned the posting with their photos at the end (Goddess and the Doctor or whatever it was). Considering they had their clear mugs publicly posted on the social media, not exactly blowing their cover.
 
Because they don't want anyone to know who they really are. Since they decided to delve into widespread criminality and defraud people, they lost that cloak of secrecy they relied on across the board. Sunshine, disinfectant and all that.
Hm. I guess you don't get it. That's okay, a lot of people don't get it.

The problem as far as I can see is this idea that because someone is a criminal, they do not deserve basic human rights, such as the right to privacy. This is just one example of that kind of thinking, which to me is problematic. Once you have decided that they have forfeited the right to privacy, what other human rights can you conclude that they have also forfeited?
 
Hm. I guess you don't get it. That's okay, a lot of people don't get it.
You're welcome to explain. This is, after all, an educational discussion forum with an open mic.
The problem as far as I can see is this idea that because someone is a criminal, they do not deserve basic human rights, such as the right to privacy. This is just one example of that kind of thinking, which to me is problematic. Once you have decided that they have forfeited the right to privacy, what other human rights can you conclude that they have also forfeited?
When they are con artists? Any right to conceal their identities from their victims and other "associates" who deserve to know these people take advantage of others through deception, sometimes relying on concealing identities and various fraud.
 
You're welcome to explain. This is, after all, an educational discussion forum with an open mic.

I have been doing so. There's a unique culture and etiquette in the kink scene, and one of the basic courtesies is that if you're in a masked room, you don't remove the mask, even if you do know who is behind it. In this case "mask" may be literal or metaphorical.

ETA: as has been pointed out there is not enough information provided to know whether the scene they were part of used masking. Some do, some don't. However:

When they are con artists? Any right to conceal their identities from their victims and other "associates" who deserve to know these people take advantage of others through deception, sometimes relying on concealing identities and various fraud.

Exactly what I was talking about. Human rights are human rights, and even criminals and con artists are entitled to them.
 
Exactly what I was talking about. Human rights are human rights, and even criminals and con artists are entitled to them.
Not when their crimes are accomplished by concealing their identities. If a person charged with fraud has been using aliases then those aliases, and their real identities, are absolutely part of the crime and part of the news around it. It may be the only way to expose further crimes and bring justice to the victims. You are not entitled to all your rights if you're utilizing them to victimize others. It's a social contract, which means violators do not get to enjoy all the fruits of those who abide by the terms of the contract.
 
I have been doing so. There's a unique culture and etiquette in the kink scene, and one of the basic courtesies is that if you're in a masked room, you don't remove the mask, even if you do know who is behind it. In this case "mask" may be literal or metaphorical.

ETA: as has been pointed out there is not enough information provided to know whether the scene they were part of used masking. Some do, some don't.
They had their faces posted on social media with their alter ego identity names. They were out in the open in public, by their own permission.

{Eta: I don't understand why you are affording this place in their kink community some kind of privileged status. They were con artists. Their possible victims deserve to be made aware. Do you think having their other aliases publicized might put a damper on their other social contacts? I sure do. But you only want to protect this one?}
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Exactly what I was talking about. Human rights are human rights, and even criminals and con artists are entitled to them
You asked what rights a con artist scammer should lose. I said identity concealment rights. You're agreeing?
 
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Not when their crimes are accomplished by concealing their identities. If a person charged with fraud has been using aliases then those aliases, and their real identities, are absolutely part of the crime and part of the news around it. It may be the only way to expose further crimes and bring justice to the victims. You are not entitled to all your rights if you're utilizing them to victimize others. It's a social contract, which means violators do not get to enjoy all the fruits of those who abide by the terms of the contract.

Their crime was not attendance at kink and fetish events. Their concealment of identity at those events has nothing to do with criminal fraud.
 
You asked what rights a con artist scammer should lose. I said identity concealment rights. You're agreeing?

Not in the case of anonymity at kink and fetish events, no. In cases where they concealed their identity for the purposes of fraud, sure. Go for it. But they did not attend kink and fetish events for the purposes of fraud. Or if they did, then they did it for a reason that virtually nobody else attends them for.
 
Their crime was not attendance at kink and fetish events. Their concealment of identity at those events has nothing to do with criminal fraud.
Maybe it did, there's no way to find out unless their concealment of identity is revealed to allow other potential victims to come forward. If you read in the paper that Miss X has been charged with embezzling all her clients' funds you might well be relieved because you have all your investments with Miss Y...except for the information tidbit "Miss X has also been operating under the alias Miss Y."
 
Maybe it did, there's no way to find out unless their concealment of identity is revealed to allow other potential victims to come forward. If you read in the paper that Miss X has been charged with embezzling all her clients' funds you might well be relieved because you have all your investments with Miss Y...except for the information tidbit "Miss X has also been operating under the alias Miss Y."

I think it's unlikely that they attended sex parties for purposes other than sex.
 
Really? I don't think it's unlikely at all. There can be quite a lot of downtime at such things.

Up-and-downtime, I think you mean. :whistling

But no, you're right. There could be opportunities for "networking". But there is no suggestion that this is what was going on in this case. The victims of the fraud were not reported as being members of the kink scene.
 
But no, you're right. There could be opportunities for "networking". But there is no suggestion that this is what was going on in this case. The victims of the fraud were not reported as being members of the kink scene.
Which would only have been known if the aliases had been revealed to them. Look, I'm a trifle kinky myself, and while I wouldn't care to have all my business exposed to the world I would totally understand, if I were to commit crimes, that my privacy was not entirely something I should expect to enjoy any more. That's how society works. You violate a social contract you should expect penalties, or at the very least the revokation of some privileges.
 
I am so totally lost.

There are no super secret spy club names. Veronica Maxwell is the babe's real name. Dr Amani Maxwell was an early alias the guy used, both for work stuff and for his Q&A hosting about swinging at clubs (yes, his wild and crazy fetish is boring ass swinging like grandma did in the 1970s). And that was from a dozen years ago (2012).


Where are we getting all this super secret spy club name stuff? Is it all imaginary?

Eta: here's her bio. She's a sexologist, yo. Note it has the same adress as Perkins' phony school (a strip mall mailbox). I'm still having fun looking at Perkins' stuff. I can't belive he didn't get caught sooner. It's pretty transparent that he's a scammer


I know the OP wanted to focus on this one line kink shame thing, but man, I tell you what: this guy is fascinating. He wasn't really a fraudster. Well, kind of, but that's the boring part. He was just openly selling bogus degrees, like a hundred other online fake certificate sellers.

What's fascinating is how he hustled his way into credibility. Like, just made up ◊◊◊◊ and ran with it, fooling everybody. Literally, no one even made a phone call to check anything on his resume, which doesn't even make sense. He submits stuff to Research Gate, and has been cited by other researchers. Just... no one ever checked anything.
 
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Where are we getting all this super secret spy club name stuff?
Where the ◊◊◊◊ are you getting "super secret spy stuff" from?

Members of kink communities sometimes use aliases, especially if it's a "masked" room. It's not suspicious, and their privacy should not be violated unless it is directly relevant to criminal charges, which I see zero evidence of.
But from what we read, while they may have gone partly for sex, it was also partly for scamming.
That's pure speculation. There's no evidence of that. None that I've seen, anyway.
 
Exactly what I was talking about. Human rights are human rights, and even criminals and con artists are entitled to them.
In the UK, convicted sex offenders are place on a register, which is accessible to the public. We have a right to know if such a person is living in our neighbourhoods, or working at our local schools. This is an instance where the right to privacy for one indivudual is outweighed by the rights of the surrounding community to know of potential dangers to them.
 
I'm missing something here. The article referred only to activity in "Toronto's kink and fetish scene". That's pretty vague, isn't it? Borderline meaningless? Then it goes to the relevant specifics: the exact aliases they used, which are as important as any other aliases used by scammers.

I mean, if they titled the article "Kink Freaks Busted", then yeah, I'd say they were being prudish/shaming about it. But don't journalists tend to throw out any info on the bad guys they can, if only to show how thorough they investigated? Like Luigi Mangione having his education and job history published. It's a journalists way of saying "we dug deep".
From the article:
In the Twitter post, Perkins said “The Goddess and The Doctor” would be at Club M4, a Toronto swingers club, where they would be fielding questions about kink and fetish.​
 
In the UK, convicted sex offenders are place on a register, which is accessible to the public. We have a right to know if such a person is living in our neighbourhoods, or working at our local schools. This is an instance where the right to privacy for one indivudual is outweighed by the rights of the surrounding community to know of potential dangers to them.
Perkins isn't a convicted sex offender though.

However I don't think the journalism is at fault for revealing the information in question, for the obvious reasons others have stated.
 
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From the article:
In the Twitter post, Perkins said “The Goddess and The Doctor” would be at Club M4, a Toronto swingers club, where they would be fielding questions about kink and fetish.​
Yes. I know. I pointed that out already. Those were their Twitter handles and possibly (but by no means evidenced) some kind of nickname in the club or community. Their IRL names were on the very same public Twitter posts, with their clearly recognizable unmasked faces.

But they were by no means whatsoever secret or somehow privileged to not be "outed" in deference to their "privacy". I mean Jesus christ, man, it was in their public Twitter posts which included their pics and real names. There was absolute zero secret about this. They did not have some kind of masked identity revealed, which has been the two page claim now.
 
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Where the ◊◊◊◊ are you getting "super secret spy stuff" from?

Members of kink communities sometimes use aliases, especially if it's a "masked" room. It's not suspicious, and their privacy should not be violated unless it is directly relevant to criminal charges, which I see zero evidence of. That's pure speculation. There's no evidence of that. None that I've seen, anyway.
Your entire premise is speculation. There were no secret names. No one outed them. They were already out and proud, big and bold with their real IDs and faces attached to their public Twitter account.

So why are you talking about evidence at the tail end of the argument when your argument is entirely imaginary, or at the absolute best, speculative and entirely hypothetical, theorizing about circumstances that have nothing to do with this story or these people?
 
In the UK, convicted sex offenders are place on a register,
which is accessible to the public. We have a right to know if such a person is living in our neighbourhoods, or working at our local schools. This is an instance where the right to privacy for one indivudual is outweighed by the rights of the surrounding community to know of potential dangers to them.
Just as a note - It isn't. "...There is no general public access to the “sex offenders register”...."
 
So obvious that I assume Ferland knew and didn't care ... she wanted that fake degree no matter.
I looked at the home boy's website. It fairly screams bull ◊◊◊◊, and fairly obviously. It might just be my experience, but having "certified" in the name of the college itself is a huge red flag. Colleges tend to do the educating, and a separate board does the certifying. They are usually rolled together in the clumsiness of scams.

In construction litigation, I've come to recognize claims of certification (usually by bodies I've never heard of) to mean that it's a worthless CV fluffer. Hell, I have a ordinations and degrees that are accredited and certified, and like Perkins' hustle, the accrediting body is also owned by the educational body. It's circular bull ◊◊◊◊, and transparently so.

What is so interesting is how many bodies he fooled with nothing but an imaginary CV. After a while, the verifiable matters start piling up, and I guess no one checks the original claims. This guy claimed military and police work, without even specifying what freaking police department he claimed to work in. He said he was discharged from the military, and three months later was a sergeant in a Canadian police force. You physically can't rise in rank that fast in any circumstances. And this got by actual police departments that employed him.
 
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Exactly what I was talking about. Human rights are human rights, and even criminals and con artists are entitled to them.
Since when does a con artist who is using fake identities entitled to confidentiality surrounding one of those identities?

Spoiler alert: Never.
 
I love it that this guy's Research Gate submissions include co-authorship by people that don't exist. He must ride his whole existence on others taking his word for stuff.

Just this December, he wrote a paper about Luigi Mangione. I guess he either believes his own bull ◊◊◊◊ and thinks he's still legit, or doesn't realize he has been publicly busted.

 
Anyone in search of an actual irrelevant fact, here's one for you. The dimwit is a Trumper. Here he fawns over Linda McMahon's qualifications to lead Dept of Education.
 
The premise of the OP is that being into kink is implying deviance. Isn't this like the 21st Century, and we are kind of way past all that? I mean, generally at least, for anyone under, say, 80 years old?
 
In the UK, convicted sex offenders are place on a register, which is accessible to the public. We have a right to know if such a person is living in our neighbourhoods, or working at our local schools. This is an instance where the right to privacy for one indivudual is outweighed by the rights of the surrounding community to know of potential dangers to them.
Yes. There are circumstances where human rights are justifiably infringed. I don't believe this is one of them.

Your entire premise is speculation. There were no secret names. No one outed them. They were already out and proud, big and bold with their real IDs and faces attached to their public Twitter account.
I didn't call them "secret names". You're the only person who did that, with your implication that there was some kind of cloak-and-dagger James Bond stuff going on.
 
I didn't call them "secret names". You're the only person who did that, with your implication that there was some kind of cloak-and-dagger James Bond stuff going on.
The specific reason people use make pretend names doesn't interest me. I generally find it silly, so refer to it with a silly descriptor.

Any answers to anything I've asked? I confess myself ongoingly confused.
 
In the UK, convicted sex offenders are place on a register, which is accessible to the public. We have a right to know if such a person is living in our neighbourhoods, or working at our local schools. This is an instance where the right to privacy for one indivudual is outweighed by the rights of the surrounding community to know of potential dangers to them.
It makes sense to do this for sex offenders. I'm not sure it makes sense for fraudsters.

Also, sex offender notification is overseen by the state, and it actually contacts the people that need to know. It's not a hit-or-miss vigilante action by a reporter or editor.
 
Actually, yes it is.
Your link, and those I looked at before posting, say the same thing:
There is no direct access, but any concerned person can make a request to the police to have that information released.
It's called Sarah's Law:
Sarah's Law is another name for the UK's child sex offenders disclosure scheme. It allows anyone to enquire whether a person who has access to a child is a registered sex offender, or poses a risk to that child.
the scheme allows parents, guardians and third parties to apply directly for information themselves.
 
It makes sense to do this for sex offenders. I'm not sure it makes sense for fraudsters.

Maybe. That wasn't my point, though> I was merely commenting on the idea that human rights apply universally, even to criminals, when this is not the case.
Also, sex offender notification is overseen by the state, and it actually contacts the people that need to know. It's not a hit-or-miss vigilante action by a reporter or editor.
That may be the case in America, but it's not that way in the UK, as linked to above.
 
The specific reason people use make pretend names doesn't interest me. I generally find it silly, so refer to it with a silly descriptor.

Any answers to anything I've asked? I confess myself ongoingly confused.
What are you still confused about?
 
What are you still confused about?
Well, we could start with why the hell we are talking about outing names and how horrific it is and how there's no evidence of these people scamming in the club when it has apparently nothing to do with anything at all in this story? You could start with post #3.

Or you could just work down the questions you've been snipping out chronologically. Six of one, and all that.
 
Well, we could start with why the hell we are talking about outing names and how horrific it is and how there's no evidence of these people scamming in the club when it has apparently nothing to do with anything at all in this story? You could start with post #3.
It's an aspect of the story, and in my opinion worth a bit of discussion.
Or you could just work down the questions you've been snipping out chronologically. Six of one, and all that.
Or you could just briefly summarise what you are confused about, which you just did.
 
It's an aspect of the story, and in my opinion worth a bit of discussion.

Or you could just briefly summarise what you are confused about, which you just did.
Jesus christ dude, it's not an aspect of the story.

There were no secret names. They were not outed by anyone, anywhere, at any time. The horrific infringement of their rights did not happen.

You're criticizing others for having "no evidence" of a speculative scenario within an entirely imaginary paradigm. That's confusing.

If you said "let's talk about something unrelated to the OP", then fine. But you insist it has something to do with these people and this story. Which it doesn't.
 
I think what you're failing to understand is that play names are not "secret". Not definitionally anyway. As has been shown here, these peoples' play names were not secret. They are, however, unknown to the vast majority of people, which number has now been reduced by SI publishing that detail. It's like being out to your friends but not to your family. It's not on to tell someone who isn't already in the know.

And the fact that it's an aspect of the story is indicated by the fact that you, and I, and others, are still talking about it.
 

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