ntech
JREF Kid
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Ruby said:
Yes, that happens!!
Inside, I am also thinking I need to get my little girl the heck out of the dayschool. She is only four.......so I wonder if it will not be as traumatic on here to lose her little friends. It's just that she loves going to "class". Then there is her birthday.
I don't know what we will do!!!
Ruby
I imagine that you are paying for the class or you are as entitled as the rest. You simply have to stop caring what people think and you can walk with your head high into any room. You leave your daughter in if you like and if she moves on after the session then fine. Our children both have birthdays in July so it is always hard to get children to come because it is prime vacation season. We invited the whole class last year for my daughter and ended up with four little girls as guests. My daughter and her guests had a great time. This year we simply had the children choose all the activities for the day of their birthday.
My wife will attest that I could care less what people think of me. I simply try to be a good husband, good father and moral person. That is all I can do. I care only what my family thinks of me. Those who really know me are all that count. No one else has that right.
Ray-ntech
Roadtoad
Bufo Caminus Inedibilis
Something you may want to consider, Ruby:
This is not the time for you to go out searching for another church. You have been burnt so very badly, and by a cultic church no less. It will take you time to get the evil juju out of your heart and mind. Please, as a fellow Christian, just sit it out for a bit, and chill. You shouldn't get yourself up to be hurt again. Because given what you've been through, you're almost sure to set yourself up to do just that.
Evil Dave (as usual, dammit) is correct. Anything you say to these people will be taken and twisted and used against you. Break it off, and leave them behind. I've done the letter writing bit, and believe you me, that was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made. Don't do it. You're done with them. If they aren't done with you, well... F*** 'em if they can't take a joke.
(Sorry, I probably shouldn't have said that....)
As to what to do on Sundays: Why not go have a taco?
This is not the time for you to go out searching for another church. You have been burnt so very badly, and by a cultic church no less. It will take you time to get the evil juju out of your heart and mind. Please, as a fellow Christian, just sit it out for a bit, and chill. You shouldn't get yourself up to be hurt again. Because given what you've been through, you're almost sure to set yourself up to do just that.
Evil Dave (as usual, dammit) is correct. Anything you say to these people will be taken and twisted and used against you. Break it off, and leave them behind. I've done the letter writing bit, and believe you me, that was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made. Don't do it. You're done with them. If they aren't done with you, well... F*** 'em if they can't take a joke.
(Sorry, I probably shouldn't have said that....)
As to what to do on Sundays: Why not go have a taco?
ntech said:
My hubby is like that too. I worry too much.
We are paying for the classes. Not all the little children who attend the class come to our church. I won't go near the church, but my hubby takes our little girl to class twice a week...as well as picks her up.
