May I present the Detaching Penis Spider, for your edification?
Some males in cannibalistic species have detachable genitalia, which break off after mating. This means they can only mate once or twice, but researchers have discovered that the sex organ keeps transferring sperm into the female even after it is no longe
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It leaves its thingy in the female, possibly to stop other males mating with her, or maybe to stop her killing and eating him, a distressingly common habit among invertebrates. Either way, you have to wonder about the very first male spider to do this. He must have had balls- but not much else!