This is correct. I am particular about whom I keep company with but understand there are individuals on this board who I appreciate more than others, not because they agree with me or even interact with me for that matter, but because they express their atheism in a way which I find appealing and genuine.
On the other hand, their are those who express their atheism in ways which I find...to be kind...'immature'. Interacting with invisible personalities on the internet is a tricky business. Interacting with people face to face is far more productive. There are personalities on the internet who express themselves in ways which they would not so easily get away with in face to face interactions, hiding as they can behind avatars and pretend names...quite faceless. I have no such acquaintances in my non-cyber world, nor would I wish for them. Of course they exist, but they are not friends of mine.
In cyberland, well...it is different. People can and do use the opportunity to act out.
On this board, or perhaps more localized in this forum there seems to be a dominant type of expression attributed to atheism which I find distasteful, unproductive, scornful, condescending, full of its own importance and there have been times when I have thought to myself "if this is atheism I am better off among Christians" which is I know, no greatly better option, but the point being it shouldn't even have to be an option to think about, even in a none serious way.
So now I understand more clearly. It isn't even about what we each self identify with 'being' and broadcast to anyone who would bother to listen. It is about how we each are. It is not about theists and atheists, theism and atheism.
Those things are truly meaningless.