CoulsdonUK
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Did we already talk about how stupid it was for RS to visit MK grave? I suppose...I hate having to work...anyhoo...
I also think it was stupid for AK to express the desire to visit.
Dont these dopes understand that detectives often record grave sites and funerals because the killers often attend? These kids are not getting smarter IMHO. Saying and doing stupid stuff is not advised at this time.
They really are both clueless sometimes.
I agree that it was not the smartest thing to do politically, and that it can also be construed as disrespectful to the Kerchers (who'd previously expressed a desire that only family and friends visit the grave).
On the other hand, the cemetery is a public space, and therefore the Kerchers - whether they like it or not - have no control or say over who stands in front of Meredith's grave. If Sollecito had a genuine personal need to visit the grave for his own reasons, I don't automatically attach anything malicious or hurtful to that.
I suppose the best solution would have been if Sollecito's visit to the grave had remained entirely private and untold. It would appear that this was Sollecito's intention - given that the visit apparently took place back in March. If his father had not talked about it the other day, nobody need ever have known about it.
But having said all that, if I were in Sollecito's shoes I would certainly have refrained from going to the grave at all until and unless I was acquitted of the murder.
I really do not think the Kercher family were asking that much and the combination of Raffaele ignoring Meredith’s family public statements and his Father bizarre need to make the visit public demonstrates a serious lack empathy, it should not have been about Raffaele wishes or feelings but one of respecting the families wishes.
Do you also disagree with LondonJohn’s post which I was responding to or is it just mine, if so why?It could be said that the Kercher family show a bizarre lack of respect for two people declared innocent by an Italian court of the murder of their family member. Most recent is John Kercher declaring he had heard all Amanda's rubbish before, and previously Stephanie Kercher declaring we don't read these books, those of Amanda and Raffaele truthfully and laboriously telling everything they knew about the case.
ETA: For context I have put the 3 post covering Raffaele’s apparent visit to Meredith’s grave.
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