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So, some interesting content on Almost Diamonds over the past couple of days.

Recently, Bora Zivkovic left his position at SciAm blogging over allegations of sexual assault/harassment. One of the people calling Zivkovic out is an evolutionary biologist named Cristina Wilcox, who wrote a widely-quoted post about the situation.

Zvan wrote a post in which she, in turn, listed allegations that Wilcox had sexually harassed/assaulted others. She reported an email from a friend who said:

During the sea shanty singing (which had to be moved from the bar to the empty restaurant), Christie was kind of moving around the table behind all the people sitting and singing. I was sitting and singing. She came up from behind me and kissed me on the mouth. I shoved her away. She said, “Jerk,” and leaned over and kissed the woman next to me on the mouth. I won’t speak for the woman involved, but she shoved her off pretty quick too. I didn’t know what to do, so I kept singing and tried to have a good time.

And heard from another friend who said:

In this case, Christie had flirted–consensually to start with–with our common friend. When Christie made it clear that she took the flirtation seriously, our friend informed her that he did not. Christie did not take “No” for an answer. She continued to send frequent and inappropriate text messages. (Not that it matters in terms of whether Christie’s advances were wanted, but both of my friends whom she targeted are married and monogamous.)
Then came ScienceOnline 2012. By this point, I and a small number of other people knew enough about what was happening to run interference between Christie and my friend. That seemed to be mostly successful, until she showed up at his hotel room one night “to talk”. Then she got into his bed, and he ended up sleeping in the armchair in the room because he didn’t want to leave her alone with his things and didn’t have phone numbers for people he knew mostly online. He sat there, paralyzed and disbelieving, like so many targets of harassment who can’t believe that these events can really be happening to them.

So far, it's pretty normal. Allegations -- from unnamed sources, but multiple sources, so corroborated in the same sense as the others -- made against a Name in skepticism/science. That's similar to the allegations against Shermer/Krauss/Bora, and by the logic expressed in the posts condemning them, these should be posted far and wide so people can know to protect themselves. But here's where things get interesting.

See, that post isn't there anymore. Instead, Zvan first redacted the specific allegations. Then she redacted almost the entire post. And now it's gone entirely. Instead, we have an apology:

I made a mistake, and I owe Christie Wilcox and this community an apology. When I wrote this post, I mistook being part of a set of events as they unfolded as being the same thing as having a full enough view of those events to know that I could comment on them without getting her perspective. I should not have done that. As a result, I published an account of her actions that has not fully stood up in the face of further scrutiny. For that, I am truly sorry.

Nary a peep to the arguments that 'even if these allegations are unlikely/possibly false/uncorroborated, we've got to get them out there to protect people' that we heard with Shermer et al. And, in fact, I seem to recall a lot of people asking, "Shouldn't we get Shermer's side?" only to be told that, no, we don't need his side because this is not a court of law, no right to face your accuser or get due process, so it doesn't matter. Seems like that's not always the case now.

(Postscript: I myself, of course, have no idea if these allegations are true or not; I know next to nothing about Wilcox. My point here is rather the hypocrisy in suddenly being interested in talking to alleged sexual harassers, withholding posts until getting both sides, etc., when this was not at all a concern on FtB before).
 
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I agree with one criticism of the apology. If you're going to retract a claim, retract it clearly.

On the other hand, responding to a claim of harassment (with two named sources and an apparent admission by the target of the claim) by revealing negative information about one of the people reporting the harassment is a problem. As far as I can tell, Wilcox's alleged behavior had nothing to do with Zivkovic's and there's no doubt that Zivkovic behaved inappropriately. Reporting Wilcox's behavior, in that context, looks an awful lot like trying to harm Wilcox because of what she reported rather than reporting a matter of public interest.
 
On the other hand, responding to a claim of harassment (with two named sources and an apparent admission by the target of the claim) by revealing negative information about one of the people reporting the harassment is a problem. As far as I can tell, Wilcox's alleged behavior had nothing to do with Zivkovic's and there's no doubt that Zivkovic behaved inappropriately. Reporting Wilcox's behavior, in that context, looks an awful lot like trying to harm Wilcox because of what she reported rather than reporting a matter of public interest.

It is indeed weird.

If Zivkovic was going to deny the accusations then I could see the logic in saying "Wilcox's idea of appropriate sexual boundaries includes hopping into beds where she isn't wanted, so Wilcox cannot possibly be sincere in complaining about my lack of sexual boundaries. She might even be lying and projecting her issues on to me". That would be a possible line to run in his own defence.

Admitting to it and than attacking Wilcox as well seems more like airing dirty laundry for the purpose of revenge.
 
Wasn't it just revealing another example of inappropriate behaviour in the same community?
Not sure why Wilcox seems to be getting a pass here?
 
Wasn't it just revealing another example of inappropriate behaviour in the same community?

It's one thing to report someone's bad behavior, it's another to do specifically in the context of responding to that person's reporting of harassment. Svan appears to have said that Svan was only reporting Wilcox's behavior because Wilcox said something. That's the punishment angle Kevin_Lowe referred to.
 
It's one thing to report someone's bad behavior, it's another to do specifically in the context of responding to that person's reporting of harassment. Svan appears to have said that Svan was only reporting Wilcox's behavior because Wilcox said something. That's the punishment angle Kevin_Lowe referred to.

That reflects badly on Zvan. I don't see why it exculpates Wilcox.
 
It's one thing to report someone's bad behavior, it's another to do specifically in the context of responding to that person's reporting of harassment. Svan appears to have said that Svan was only reporting Wilcox's behavior because Wilcox said something. That's the punishment angle Kevin_Lowe referred to.


But the arguments behind detailing allegations against Shermer, Krause, etc. have included that we have to warn people in the community to protect them. Shouldn't that also apply to Wilcox? If we're going with that argument, isn't keeping people safe from Wilcox more important than waiting until some amount of time has passed between Wilcox talking about Bora and Zvan talking about Wilcox?
 
But the arguments behind detailing allegations against Shermer, Krause, etc. have included that we have to warn people in the community to protect them. Shouldn't that also apply to Wilcox? If we're going with that argument, isn't keeping people safe from Wilcox more important than waiting until some amount of time has passed between Wilcox talking about Bora and Zvan talking about Wilcox?

Because patriarchy of course...she doesn't have the privilege to be a sexual predator or something.
 
I learned a new term today and that term is emotion policing

here's how it works, at A+ anyways.

First you admit to not reading anything on a subject, in this case it was an Aplusser called GreatAmericanSatanon the thread dealing with the whole Ophelia Benson, Richard carrier Arachaya S photogate.

Next you head over to one of those blogs, in this case Richard Carriers and make a post that doesn't really say much of anything, A post that Richard Carrier referred to as "weirdly childish"

Cue a noob to the Aplus forums, a noob who agrees with Carrier's assessment of the post and hence, the coining of the term, emotion policing.

As far as I can tell, emotion policing involves freaking out about an issue while remaining willfully ignorant about it.

Update, that noob, a poster by the name of jett lagg has now been banned from a plus for daring to argue that the whole virginity testing issue revolves around open air gynecological examinations performed for stupid reasons rather than the ( presumably lesbian ) rape reasons they prefer over there at Aplus.

It appears that victim-of-everything-in-the-world global moderator ischemgeek got "triggered" and reacted in the approved Aplus fashion, censorship and banning. Strange she didn't get triggered when the thread first went up only when someone tried to make an argument for what this virginity testing really is.

Still nothing from Zulu women and girls claiming they were raped so the assumption that consent wasn't given for these examinations, either by the girls themselves or their parents is strictly a "western" construct. It looks like this practice is pretty widespread though, form, the Washington Post link I posted above.

Nomagugu Ngobese, a sex educator in the provincial capital of Pietermaritzburg, said she has trained about 800 virginity testers. She said that testing is never forced and that most girls find it "uplifting." Contrary to what critics say, she said that there is also a virginity test for boys, though she declined to describe it.

Update2, Never seen A+ this busy. Chemgeek says that the situation in Africa has parallels to her own, hence the triggering. Now pictures of puppies are being posted to make the big bad real world go away.

EllieMursaki is now AlexSeanchai and requesting poster jettlagg be hiddentexted.

Whew, for a couple of weeks there it looked like the plussers had calmed down but now it's evident the volcano was just sleeping.
 
Yeah, I saw that EllieMursaki had changed her name. I thought maybe she was trying to hide from her history of bad writing, but she's still linking to her book, so no.

Speaking of Ellie/Alex, on the Our Next Move thread wherein they discuss further outreach, she adds a list of her favorite charities to which the plussers might want to donate. Apparently this is the list she gives to her family for them to donate to, in lieu of Christmas gifts. At the bottom is: The Get Me Out of Debt and Out of This House Fund.

I like to think she didn't really give that to her family, but considering the way she's shown she treats them, it wouldn't surprise me. I can't imagine handing my parents a list of things I wanted for Christmas (or Giftmas as she terms it) and adding something like that at the bottom. "Money" sure, but essentially: I hate you and I hate this house, and I want out, so give me the money to leave!

She's clearly over 18, so why her parents put up with some of her crap is beyond me. It's just more of the: "Me, me, me, me, me, I'm so entitled, and no one else's feelings matter" mindset that I hate so much about them.
 
I suppose mom could simply wrap some cash up in packages and say "use this for whatever you want, give it to charity or buy yourself some pots, pans and towels"

She appears to hate her mom, yet demands her parents provide subsidized housing while she's doing her gender studies correspondence courses. It's weird that she has the EFF on there as they defend "freeze peach" while immersing herself in a culture that celebrates censorship.

Did you see the bit where she was on about her parents choice to have her dad work full time while her mom stayed home and raised the kids. The bit about how mom would have made more money and she wouldn't have had to eat powdered roast beef.
 
Yeah, I saw that one, and Surgoshan backs her up on her outrage. How awful that she had to eat powdered egg mix. I know there are people starving in the world, but Alex had to eat powdered egg mix!!! And all because her parents are selfish, evil people who didn't have the decency to order their lives the way their dear, loving daughter demanded of them.

Am I the only one that thinks that if these people actually met in real life, they'd all hate each other? I think they'd consider one another horribly self-absorbed for constantly talking about themselves, and not grasp that the rest of us see practically all of them that way all the time. It's bizarre.
 
It reminded me of a buddy of mine who had deep seated anger issues towards his father because dad decided to do a vanity press effort and borrow against the equity in the family home to publish a coffee table book of photographs that failed.

Buddy blamed dad for his living in poverty as an adult ( after going to private school as a child ) and was deaf to any argument that that poverty resulted from buddy making really bad business divisions. Buddy died a few years ago, at age 60, the cause was attributed to overwork and stress as he was working 16 hours a day at a business that was clearly no longer viable.

I figure the plussers would get along famously, for a while at least but I shudder to think about what sort of society they'd create if they found themselves in a Gilligan's Island scenario.
 
First you admit to not reading anything on a subject, in this case it was an Aplusser called GreatAmericanSatanon the thread dealing with the whole Ophelia Benson, Richard carrier Arachaya S photogate.

Next you head over to one of those blogs, in this case Richard Carriers and make a post that doesn't really say much of anything, A post that Richard Carrier referred to as "weirdly childish"

Cue a noob to the Aplus forums, a noob who agrees with Carrier's assessment of the post and hence, the coining of the term, emotion policing.

I have no idea what any of this means.
 
I have no idea what any of this means.

That I should give up coffee ?

It means that someone commented on a topic without researching it, The comment was dismissed as childish by the person it was directed at, in this case Richard Carrier. A third and new person agreed with Carrier's assessment, this happened on the Aplus forums.

The agreement was labelled emotion policing by an A+ mod and a warning was issued.

In short, it doesn't matter whether an opinion is informed or not, only that there is enough rage behind it then you're good to go at A+:)

Comment here at Richard Carrier's blog, #8

A+ thread here

Ophelia Benson's blog, see comments for the continuing saga
 
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