colander
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Can't unravel what your post means.
If this helps - my comment was about a well known behaviour and that is that some victims will argue that they were not abused.
If you have been subject to genital mutilation (which of course does not include genital surgery that was for medical reasons) without your informed consent then you were abused.
I am sure that your parents (and most parents who have their child of either sex "circumcised") made their decision with good intentions and with no malice and indeed with love for you as their child, that however does not mean that you were not the victim of abuse.
If it doesn't actually correlate to increased chance of deleterious physical or psychological outcomes, in what meaningful way can it be termed "abuse"?