Haven't I seen you defending the assertion that religious belief, is by definition, delusional?
This seems to be one of the pot-kettle/mote-beam moments on your part.
No.
My position is that religious beliefs - as well as many other things - are complex and can not be described or labelled in black-and-white terms (what you seem to be trying to do with my actual opinion). Religious beliefs are a blend of cultural heritage with diverse types of experiences the individual has across hers/his life. This may or may not include delusions, with several levels of importance and intensity. As a result, some theists will be extremely nice individuals while some others will become monsters. Most will be the average human beings we all are.
This put, another position I hold is that many religious persons(*) have a very low grade of tolerance when it comes down to the questioning -be it direct or not- of their beliefs. These persons also tend to believe they have the right to impose their views over the rest of society.
Its also my personal experience (yes, its just an anecdote, so it must be treated just like that) that many religious individuals consider those with different beliefs (or no belief at all) as lesser humans somehow. Again, this comes in different shades. Some consider the unbelivers as just ignorant of some deep sophisticated theologic argument, others as evil people whose souls are the properties of the devil, others as people who need to be converted (willingly or not), some others as people who hate god for whatever reason and many, many, many and many other views.
Personally I think I have the right to question and discuss whatever topic I want - politics, movies, religion, sports, etc. Religion, being part of my cultural environment, being something imposed over myself and my kid, something which affects my freedom and well-being, is thus an important topic.
To sum, it is my opinion that questioning religion and its influence within society is valid and necessary. The best way to do this is to focus the discussion at religion's core -god. If god is not real, then, why should I follow your commands, Mr. Priest/Pastor/Mullah?Rabbi? Many atheists (OK, also agnostics, ignostics, whatever) are doing this here and elsewhere, using several different approaches, some milder, some more antagonistic. If religious leaders were not constantly trying to shove their god-inspired rules down everyone else's throats, these discussions, as well as human society would be different. Its a reaction to religious leaders' retrograde and authoritary ways. Since questioning god's existence hits the core of theism -god- it may hurt theists.
(*) I must say, however, I believe (note the word "believe") one too many religious leader actually don't give a rat's ass to god. They just use religion as a tool to gain and/or mantain power.