You seek to control their bodies. As if you own them. Such a kind, loving husband, and father.
They remain free to make a choice that I find abhorrent and I remain free to cut them off. I'm not controlling their bodies anymore than my wife controls my body by not "allowing" me to have sex with other women. I'm pretty sure that most people don't "allow" their spouses to have sex with other people. The fact that sex is a private decision would not hold much water.
Fortunately for me, my wife is aware f my views, and we've discussed it. If she needed an abortion, she would have it. As I love her.
If my wife needed one, she would have it as well. But there are few situations where one is needed.
If she WANTED an abortion, and I did not, I wouldn't leave her either, as I do indeed love her, and respect her rights over her own body.
Then you obviously don't feel very strongly about abortion. We are different, and that's OK.
And I've done so in the past. But I don't seek to control their behavior, as if I own the person. I don't say You are no longer allowed to do that, because I don't like it'.
No, you just stop talking to them which is basically the same thing. The person can then decide whether or not to change their behavior depending on how much they value your relationship. This isn't control; it's normal human interaction.
People have always been able to hire who they wish. The laws, however, make it illegal to discriminate based on certain traits.
So that means employers can't freely choose who not to hire. They can privately think that Mexicans are lazy, but if a qualified one comes around and they don't hire them based on their private thinking, they can be sued. This is obviously a law designed to control private employer behavior. Shouldn't private employers get to make hiring decisions privately? Why do you seek to control their behavior?
Abortion is legal up to a certain point.
Quite correct.
The decision should be strictly between the woman, and her health care provider. Not the state.
Until that legal point is reached, quite correct again. Past that legal point, the State can intervene. The reason for this is that the fetus is deserving of protection. The woman is not the only party involved and her rights get superseded at that legal line.
Further, the State can always intervene in regulating the practice of medicine. Even if a midwife was well trained in abortion technique, it would never be legal for a midwife to perform abortions. Ditto chiropractors, dentists and hairdressers. So women's options are already severely limited to only doctors. But not every doctor will perform an abortion and you can't force them to. So that limits it even further. Those are legal limitations on the rights of women to do what ever they want with their bodies already. Do you advocate that any of these things should be changed? I don't see the current law as much different from any of these kinds of regulations.
I do not seek to control the bodies of women, or to restrict their rights.
Sure you do. You acknowledge that the legal line exists and you don't argue against the line so I assume that means you think that there should be some legal line. So after that line, wherever you draw it, is crossed, the State can control and restrict their rights in deference to protecting the fetus. Unless you don't support any legal restriction on abortion at all . . . if so, I'd like to hear your argument.