I'll roll with Randi saying there were many possibilities but I'll also bet a million dollars that JE connecting with the dead, wasn't one of them. I do think one of Randi's possibilities solves my mystery though: It was my husband! In the bedroom! With his cellphone!
Here's how it must have gone down....my husband went to the bedroom to put on his slippers. He saw me getting ready for the JE event. He had an inspiration...he got JE's phone number, called him, told him I would be going to the event and he wanted JE to impress me. Soooooo, my husband tells JE that I just bought a new refrigerator! My hubby then texted JE my picture so he could recognize me and ask me specifically if I just bought a new refrigerator. Hmmmmmm, now how can I explain how JE knew about my brother's Valerie Harper connection? I've got it!! It was my Mom! In the kitchen! With the telephone! She overheard my bro in the kitchen talking to his friend about getting tix to Valerie Harper's show. And , coincidentally of course, my Mom decided to call JE too!! But wait, my Mom doesn't know how to text pictures. So, she must have given JE a physical description of my brother so he would know who to ask specifically if he had a Valerie Harper connection. She probably also told JE that my bro would be with his sister who has an oversized head...a dead giveaway!
Wow, how could I have missed all that ??!!