Tim, I think that cultures that practice 'honor killings" consider women to be a special class of chattel, and not human beings.
They do it to men as well:
http://www.aljazeera.com/news/middleeast/2010/08/2010816171115397111.html
I'm not saying that suggests treatment of women in these cultures is therefore equal to that of men, but that this at least demonstrates that 'Honour Killings' are not some sort of excuse to kill women just because 'they can'. When honour is at stake, the men will get it as well...
Perhaps the proponents of this point of view would compare it to a situation where the parents in a Western city decide to put down the family dog because it snapped at the three year old, even though the three year old was being cruel and the pet was justifiably provoked. ETA: Just like the difference in status between the three-year-old child and the family pet explains why they are treated so differently, likewise the difference in status between the son and daughter in an 'honor killing' society explains why they are treated so differently. /end ETA
It's true, men have a higher position in their society, but as pointed out - not when family honour is at stake, apparently.
This has become a very long thread so I'll just make a few more comments to refresh anyone's memory who is interested in my opinions:
* Not all types of behavior are worthy of respect or protection, even if it's associated with a culture.
What you mean is, if we in the West don't feel a behaviour or tradition sits comfortably with
our moral values and standards, it doesn't matter what those doing it think - it is fair game for us to change.
* It's OK to try to influence people to change behaviors that affect people's dignity, self-respect, and rights to life, liberty, and safety.
No, it's not. Who says it is?
It's OK to try and help those who request help, as long as you're careful about how you provide that help.
* In regard to the nature/nuture impact on human ethics ...
I think that nature gives most people the intellectual capability to understand the concept of 'fairness' even without specific training and that it also may even give people the inclination to be 'fair' if they happen to be in a comfortable place with plenty of resources, but that nuture determines whether or not people decide to apply it and to whom.
Again, using the example of Feral children because they provide the perfect example, having been brought up outside human influence; they have no concept of 'fairness' when it comes to food - I haven't time to dig out a quote or link, but there are many examples of reports of Feral children refusing to share food, and snapping at/attacking those who try and take their food. Without cultural influence, their sense of fairness extends only to themselves and their own well-being.
Yes, we have the
intellectual capacity to
learn to be fair, but it is a concept we need to be taught.