I appreciate you sharing your experience as I have often wondered about prior events that might be coloring peoples perceptions of this case.I want to use one example of this case in regards to GZ's head wounds.
WARNING! Anecdotal data head!
Years ago, when I was a stupid young woman, I dated a man that became abusive after he lost his job. He was also an alcoholic. I was so sure I could fix him!
One night, he got pissed cuz I didn't jump up fast enough to get him a beer. When I came back with it, he smacked me upside the head with the bottle. He slammed my face into the wall, shattering my cheekbone and knocking out a tooth. He then threw me down on the stone tile floor and beat my head against the floor for I don't really remember how long.
Anyway, I had at least a 2 dozen small cuts on my head and one area split open from the pounding. I had waist length hair at the time and at the emergency room, I became hysterical because they wanted to cut my hair to get to all the wounds. I was covered in blood. No cellphones back in the 70s so no pics but I know what I looked like a couple days later. They had to cut parts of my hair to stitch the small wounds and shaved a small area around the split open area to clean it, stitch and bandage it. I was in the hospital overnight for observation because of fear of serious concussion.
I feared for my life until the moment I passed out. He also outweighed me by about 100 pounds so there was definitely reasonable fear.
I do not think the pictures/video we've seen demonstrates injuries consistent with reasonable fear for one's life. If medical professionals are willing to release him at the scene, I would think they didn't see evidence of serious injury. Until medical reports are produced indicating GZ had serious injuries, I don't believe he had reasonable fear. JMO![]()
You didn't mention it, but did the abuser go to jail for his crime? I hope so.
Clearly your story illustrates that it is possible for a person to be beaten and have such obviously severe injuries that there would be no need for debate about the severity of what happened to them. In your case the injuries made it obvious, I'm just inclined to extend consideration to less obvious instances as well. I think an interesting question to consider from your experience is how early into the assault did you start fearing for your life? I really don't mean to presume here, but I think it would have been reasonable to do so when it became clear you were dealing with a violent irrational psycho. If you had somehow shot him at that point I'd have been fine with that, even if you had almost no injuries.
It's a little off topic but your story reminded me of one of my favorite (kind of) fights. It starts off when a 230LB NFL linebacker sucker punches a young lady and . . .
a lightweight (155lb) professional fighter (Roger Huerta) just happens to see it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmfXN588F98&feature=youtube_gdata_player
There are five interesting things to me in that altercation all of which kind of relate to some issues in this thread:
1)Why did the guy throw that punch that knocked the girl out in the first place? At the time of the video I looked around in various stories and nobody seemed to know the reason.
2)The lack of crowd reaction, Huerta's actions obviously excepted.
3)The question of recklessness in regards to the Huerta confronting the guy and being willing to fight right away.
4)The ethics of pursuing the NFL guy after he runs and then the ethics of continuing the attack (briefly) when he is down.
5)That nobody involved was charged with any crime.