Our point isn't that it's bad or not as bad as some think it is, or that it's worse than a goldfish. Our point is that and I'll bold this myself Without some form of verification, there is no way to tell when it is being bad and when it is being good.
So you've been appointed as the gang's spokesperson now. This should be refreshing. Where's the cute graphic?
So a critical thinker will take a memory and try and verify it with other stuff.
Eg 1: Remember walking to the river and meeting Joe.
Could have happened because there is a verifiable river there and you did have a verifiable friend called Joe.
Eg 2; Remember meeting that giant talking rabbit when you were on your own.
Well rabbits don't talk and so we can safely assume it didn't happen.
Sorry to spoil your concept of critical thinking but a real critical thinker wouldn't make the mistake of assuming the rabbit was "giant". The rabbit, if that's what it even really was, was about as tall as me, and since I was only about as tall as the tall grass in the field, we must have both been pretty short. The other thing is that critical thinking doesn't endorse the concept of making the kind of assumptions you do. Lack of proof positive is not proof of the negative. So lack of proof positive doesn't grant you the right to "assume" your opinions are true.
Or even some songs that we'd love to remember and yet don't... Like for instance; a classic Led Zep song that you were listening to as a life changing experience happened to you.
Now I'm beginning to see your point. You've just demonstrated how you failed to properly remember the actual details of something we have previouisly discussed.
NO one is saying any of that.
You sound so sure? Have you taken a poll?
Again; Without verification, there is no way to tell if a memory is accurate or not. The more it veers away from normality, the less likely it is to be accurate.
OK so let's consider your normality barometer in the context of childhood experiences. Since many children have unusual experiences, strange childhood experiences are actually fairly normal.
As for my personal experience with the rabbit. Rabbits are known to live in grassy fields. In fact rabbits still live in that same area where I had the strange childhood experience. So since neither strange childhood experiences or rabbits in grassy fields are abnormal, it's not unreasonable to believe a child who says they had an unusual experience involving a rabbit.
How do we explain it? I don't know. But simply because we have no scientific explanation doesn't mean it didn't happen. It's more reasonable to invoke the "kids have wild imaginations" theory. But I'm not convinced all such experiences are the result of wild imaginations.