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For Heterosexuals Only!

phatred said:
I realized I was hetero when I decided I wanted offspring from my partner that were 50% my dna 50% my partner's dna.
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Are you actually sexually attracted to the opposite sex, and not to the same sex?
 
USEagle13 said:
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Sorry its long but my heart has spoken; and I ask for forgiveness from anyone whom this post my offend.
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Now that your heart has spoken, hopefully you can start to use your brain and learn.
 
phatred said:
Eagle, I didn't read most of your post, but am having a hard time believing most of the good looking 12 year olds you went to school with were out dating 20 year olds.
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The ones whom were already having sex were! I remember like it was yesterday...so unfair; how the hell was I ( a 12 or 13yr old kid), gonna compete with a high schooler....usually how they got access to the older guys was; its because they had older siblings whom had friends or were friends w/people whom had older siblings whom had friends.

As a matter of fact those experiences when I was younger have always made me want to be a cop so I can help stop all this evil people claim is not there.

I came from a small 2A school when this was going on b4 the age of the internet really kicked in so I imagine the problem is alot worse now..................(Eagle looks at the news) oh yea it is worse now the TEACHERS ARE EVEN SCREWIN EM!

Sheesh people open yer eyes....I know the wool is heavy but damnit ppl come on!
 
I am heterosexual, but I feel bad about making this choice. To help clear my soul, I wholeheartedly encourage any woman I am with to feel free to express their homosexuality in any way they see fit. I am even kind enough to help if necessary.
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What haven't I learned? I started taking college my junior year in H.S. while everyone else WASN'T using their brains. Enlighten me since you have some sort of untold knowledge it seems I should know about.

For reals...I'll even make some popcorn.
 
USEagle13 said:
What haven't I learned? I started taking college my junior year in H.S. while everyone else WASN'T using their brains. Enlighten me since you have some sort of untold knowledge it seems I should know about.

For reals...I'll even make some popcorn.
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It is not untold knowledge. It is easily accessible, and to think otherwise might suggest willful ignorance.

Start here: http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
 
All right, for what it's worth my serious answer. I'm unaware of ever choosing. I have however given it a lot of thought over the years but what floats my boat and what icks me out is consistently unambigious.

To the other point, I've finally got to the point where I don't give a rats what someone's sexually is and my little girl can grow up into/to do whatever she wants with my full support. In fact, I have recently realised that I assume the average homosexual to be more trustworthy and ethical than the average heterosexual. Maybe it's because I know too many douchebag heteros....
 
Alright I'll play a straight answer too, but part of my point is that since my heterosexuality came naturally to me, I find it quite easy to accept gay people at their word when they say that's how it happened to them.


At what point in your life did you choose to be a heterosexual? Are you still a heterosexual today or have you gone gay now that you're divorced and the children have moved out?

I remember seeing pinups in a gas station while my dad chatted with the mechanic. I was about 5. I had no idea what sex was, but I knew I liked half naked women. I had sexual fantasies about girls in my early grade school class, though at the time I had no idea what a sexual fantasy was.

A while back I found a book with some of those pinups that I still remember.

I have zero interest in guys, still, at 61.


Did your mother or father influence your decision? Do you continue to be heterosexual despite tempting offers from sexually attractive members of your gender? (If yes, why?)

Parents had nothing to do with it. I was hit on a couple of times by guys (including once by a friend) but didn't want it.


Do I have a problem with people being gay? No. I really don't care, any more than I care what car they drive or what their favorite color is. Orientation would only be significant in potential dating partner.

Additionally I don't believe it's a choice, but even if it is... so what? People are allowed to make choices.
 
Alan said:
It is not untold knowledge. It is easily accessible, and to think otherwise might suggest willful ignorance.

Start here: http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
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I read it. So basically upon the way that article defines sexual orientation at anytime it seems someone could expand it to include animals and even little kids. Which is what actually worries me.

This year some guy married his dog in the US although not legally.

It is like when does it end? Some states already have been trying to push doctrine for kindergartners where they will "teach" them about anal sex and the sort.

Some guy last year in S.Korea married an Anime cartoon character. (I bet that was a weird honeymoon)

In some 3rd world countries they have claimed to have had goats n stuff have babies that are half human half goat somehow that are immediately put down. So you know they are screwing animals like crazy over there.

Didn't syphillis come from screwing Llamas? I'm pretty sure that AIDS came from humans either screwing monkeys or eating them raw (alive actually)

Also I know people whom claim to be gay yet don't actually have gay sex. So basically they are nothing more than confused.

Kinda like the black guys that are in the KKK and hates blacks. They are just confused people and the fact that a confused scientist does a study does not sway me one way or the other.

i mean gosh look at all the damn medical and food recalls that happen because the people whom did the trials have AGENDAS.

To me I find it humorous and am glad I live somewhere that gives people a choice. This forum is a good example of confused people to say the least.

The you tube video is good for a laugh if nothing else though...
 
Perhaps you could have another go at writing an intelligent response.

Why is it that a homosexual who is a virgin must be 'confused', for example? Would this person stop being confused upon having homosexual intercourse?

What about bisexuals?
 
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jayh said:
Parents had nothing to do with it. I was hit on a couple of times by guys (including once by a friend) but didn't want it.
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That happens used to me all the time when I used to do my "running around" but it usually only happened in big cities. The small town gays are more apprehensive about it "guilt?" but once they know you are not gay they usually won't keep pushing.....although every once in a while you will come across a "bull queer" or too (don't get mad a gay co-worker told me that is what they are called).

A bull queer is one whom will continually sexually harass you even though they know you are not gay just to spite you. As a matter of fact I had to almost quit a job b4 because of a gay guy continually sexually harassing me.
The damn boss wouldn't help either because he did not want to "get in trouble" for firing a gay guy for acting "gay" on the job. Talk about a super citizen!

I couldn't handle him like I would a normal man (give him a piece of my mind to say the least) because I did not want something to escalate past a verbal confrontation and get charged with some kind of absurd hate crime when I all I was wanting to do was defend my own "honor" and personal space.

Problem is they say its a private matter yet they always bring it to the forefront of the public eye.

I also feel the same way about heterosexuals though...I mean honestly do I really need to hear about your latest sexual conquest while working or doing something that does not even pertain to sex? Good Lord, I am almost 30yrs old and have no need for that.

People get private and public confused a lot it seems. And that goes for homos and heteros alike.

Thankfully he finally quit. He was lazy as hell anyways.
 
USEagle13 said:
Sorry its long but my heart has spoken; and I ask for forgiveness from anyone whom this post my offend.
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Are you assuming I actually read your train-length cri de coeur with some attention to what you were trying to express? (I did quickly skim it.)

Your post(s) reminds me of something I said to a friend some time ago: "Opinions would be so much more valuable if fewer people had them."

Edit: I just looked up your posting history. Is the 13 in your user name is your chronological age?
 
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Alan said:
Perhaps you could have another go at writing an intelligent response.

Why is it that a homosexual who is a virgin must be 'confused', for example? Would this person stop being confused upon having homosexual intercourse?

What about bisexuals?
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1st off I have been friends with, worked with, and have had many associations with a lot of gay people in my life. Probably more so than the average Hetero but they find me I don't find them. A lot of it happened through face book through mutual friendships or when I was out socializing amongst mutual friends.

Nope this guy was not bisexual in present tense and as far as I know NEVER talked about ANY past relationships w/anyone. He seemed very, very insecure though and that was one reason why I befriended him. He seemed like a guy that might have had a rough childhood and I was hoping I could some how help lift the dude up so to speak and show him how wonderful life is.

As I got to know him I found out he was severely bi-polar and on a lot of meds. So I knew right away he was some one whom was prolly clinically "unstable" and prolly needed a stable (as far as a healthy mind is concerned) friend. This guy even contemplated suicide sating that he felt there was no place for him in this world (poor fella).

As a matter of fact he had a crush on me for a while like most gay guys I meet do and he was not a flamer so I actually did not know he was gay for a long time.

When he did tell me he was gay it was only after I confronted the dude though.

This girl we were mutual friends with was good friends with both of us and she knew he was gay from day 1 (he told her). See I actually thought the guy had a crush on her but I was oblivious that she was his (girl talk) person to "lean on" so to speak.

As it turns out he met another guy whom he liked whom WAS gay. One thing led to another and these guys are watching a movie at the "actual" gay guys house.

To make a long story short and "clean" it turns out that the guy whom "thinks" he is gay is gay until it comes to anal sex. Dude said he had tried it many of times and did not like it.

That was one of the main issues he had. He felt there was no place for him in Hetero society (he is attracted to males and not females) and he felt there was no place for him in gay society (doesn't want to participate in gay sex)

I put 2+2 together and figured out he is what I like to call a "gay watcher." He has told me he loves gay porns. So basically he will watch and get off to gay sex all day long until he has to "participate" in it.

I think a lot of this various porn out there is really messing w/peoples minds especially when they start watching it at a young age.

Sorry I got a lil long again but if you wanna know more or there is a detail that seems clouded lemme know.

As for the guy in question I am no longer friends with him cuz he kinda went off the deep end. He believes in some kind of "Return of Saturn" mumbo jumbo and is one of the "many" reasons I got rid of Facebook (I got rid of it mostly cuz I'm very good looking young single man and men and women were internet stalking me.)

I tried to help him (clear his head of consipracy stuffs) but to no avail.

I tried though and I hope the dude is doing ok. He was always so sad.....people are more impressionable than you think...
 
Walter Ego said:
Are you assuming I actually read your train-length cri de coeur with some attention to what you were trying to express? (I did quickly skim it.)

Your post(s) reminds me of something I said to a friend some time ago: "Opinions would be so much more valuable if fewer people had them."

Edit: I just looked up your posting history. Is the 13 in your user name is your chronological age?
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1st off this forum is swimming with opinions (like the ones you stated) so I see nothing wrong with that.

Wow to me the 13 is an awesome number for many reasons but heres a couple "quickies"

The 13 was the day I was born, number of states we started with (there is more than one representation of 13 on the dollar bill), and it is my lucky number. I used to always use a 13 in keno.

Is that where this is going? Name bashing? That is soooo middle school, sir.

BTW I am 28 if you must know.

Is your name a representation of how you "feel" about yourself? You have huge ego much?
 
The fact that this thread has gained any traction is yet more proof that the world is a silly, silly place.
 
USEagle13 said:
The ones whom were already having sex were! I remember like it was yesterday...so unfair; how the hell was I ( a 12 or 13yr old kid), gonna compete with a high schooler....usually how they got access to the older guys was; its because they had older siblings whom had friends or were friends w/people whom had older siblings whom had friends.

As a matter of fact those experiences when I was younger have always made me want to be a cop so I can help stop all this evil people claim is not there.

I came from a small 2A school when this was going on b4 the age of the internet really kicked in so I imagine the problem is alot worse now..................(Eagle looks at the news) oh yea it is worse now the TEACHERS ARE EVEN SCREWIN EM!

Sheesh people open yer eyes....I know the wool is heavy but damnit ppl come on!
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I'm not sure where I claimed incest doesn't exist, I'm saying at my school or anyone else I know there weren't tons of 5th graders running around romping with college guys. Maybe the wool was just pulled too far over my eyes.
 
I can sort of see where this is coming from, so I'll play it straight, more or less.

I don't think I chose to be heterosexual. Of course, I was brought up in a society where choices were not openly offered anyway, so I count it as good luck that my inclination coincided with expectations. Even during that adolescent period when, given the chance, one would probably do anything with anything that has a pulse, I knew my preference, even though unable to obtain it. There were times of frustration when being gay would have been rather convenient, but it was not for me, and eventually I found happiness as a heterosexual.

It would be nice if the world I grew up in had not been so sneeringly homophobic that avoiding the appearance of gayness or defending oneself against insinuations of gayness was such a constant chore, but that's the way it was, and still is.

I imagine my parents influenced me somewhat, at least, because they were heterosexuals and seemed ok with it, thus setting a pretty good example.

Even in Vermont, the default position is hetero, and I find it unnecessary to explain or qualify or justify my orientation, or to come out as hetero. I imagine that it will be a long time, if ever, before homosexuality blends seamlessly enough into the social fabric that this will change.
 
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