Apologies for not having read the last page of new stuff.
As per tossing a fair coin 1000 times, and recording the result, every result would be equally unlikely, as a sequence. If this wasn't the case; if there was some innocent looking random array of heads and tails that happened twice as often as all heads or all tails, that would be a brand new woo discovery.
These other experiences, which P.J. Denyer has pegged quite nicely, yet fail to qualify as synchronicity stuff, maybe because of Jung, need a name.
I think its quite possible to 'pretend' that the universe can flirt with you, in a personal way, without getting all wooed-out. So far, for me, all the pseudo-synchronicities I've had have been light, and fun. They cause a bit of a happy, excited feeling, like you just got an unexpected present. Maybe I'm lucky.
The odds would suggest the occasional dark synchronicity:
You're watching a movie and the phone rings. You pause the dvd remotely, having just heard the dialog "You will surely die tonight!"
You take the call. Its an old friend, concerned because they heard you had died.
That would suck all the fun out of noticing the happy synchronicities.
Point being, the way we interpret subjective data, if it exists, can have a a positive effect on our well being, and our chance at reproduction...and its easily possible to tune into something imaginary without jeopardizing one's critical senses or scientific curiosity.
If a bluebird flies by, making a lovely song, just as your having the first kiss with a love intrest, its a good sign. Especially if the kiss was amazing, and you really liked her.
God forbid you say anything about it to her/him. Imagine enduring a tirade of logic about the odds of a blue bird in that area during this season, and how there was no meaningful information in it, even if it did seem lovely.
That would kill a date.