I originally posted this in the
Surrogate Rant: Euthanasia Counseling thread:
My father split when I was ten years old, and my mom was left with raising three kids. Dad wasn't far off, really, but it was an every second weekend sort of thing, until he started another family.
Mom was born without side vision, something that wasn't discovered until she was in her forties. Everyone, including her, just assumed she was clumsy. When you're born without something like that, you don't really know that you don't have it - you have nothing to compare it to. Because of this she did really bad in school, and was branded stupid. She got pregnant with me right after high school, and spent the next 20 years raising kids on her own. We were never rich, but our government took care of us, made sure we had a house, food and clothes. But that's a topic for a different thread.
Mom's bad sight is a hereditary disease that shows up every other generation, and gets worse the older she is. It started getting really bad in her forties, and now she's practically blind. Luckily, she found herself a good husband that has been very understanding and really takes care of her. But financially, it could've been really bad. Luckily, I live in a country that thinks people shouldn't suffer for medical conditions that they can't control, and has supported her in every way, even going as far as offering her a guide dog - something she so far has declined, as she still sees a bit.
Then in her late forties she got colon cancer. That was a great ordeal for the family. The tumor was quite large, but she got immediate medical care the second it was discovered, and she lived through it. Then, a year later, it was discovered that the tumor was back, and once again she got immediate medical care.
A few years ago my (half-)brother crashed into a tree with a sled, and broke his face. He got immediate medical care. A few years before that, my 16 year old sister got pregnant and needed an abortion. The same sister has always suffered from terrible migraines, and has several times been admitted to the hospital for them. No waiting list, we called and said we were worried, and she got immediate medical care. She got immediate medical care. And a few years before that again, I got an infection in my testicles that made one of them swell up to the size of a tennis ball. I got immediate medical attention.
Those are just the major highlights of my family's medical history. We were never a well to do family, yet this at least was never a problem.
I can give you the total sum for all our medical bills: Zero.
And you know what? We Norwegians like it that way! From the parties furthest to the left, real socialists, to the parties furthest on the right, none of them want to change this. None of them. Not only do they all accept that free medical care has been a great boon for the country, but the vast vast majority of the population wouldn't even dream of having it any other way.
I'm a liberal of the classic kind, the dictionary definition of a liberal. I want small government, as few laws and regulations as possible, a market driven economy and the lower the taxes are the better it is. But there are some fundamental things I think the government should supply its citizens, and medical care is one of them. No one should have to live in misery and pain, even die prematurely, just because they can't afford medical care.
I shudder to think what kind of life my mother would have had in the USA.