30% of the US population is obese. Not just overweight, clinically obese. Yes, there are eating disorders and various other medical conditions that can make it difficult to keep your weight down. Are you seriously suggesting that a third of the US population suffers from some kind of genetic or mental disorder that causes them to be obese? Really?
It really is very simple. Fat people are that way because they eat too much and don't exercise enough. That really is all there is to it. Aside from the minority who have a genuine medical condition that causes problems controlling either diet or physical activity, it's entirely their own fault. It's not necessarily a bad thing. As has already been pointed out, obesity does not appear to correlate with life expectancy, and many people are perfectly happy with being overweight, even proud of it. But it's still their own actions that are the cause. And those who don't want to be overweight but are anyway because they're unable or unwilling to control their diet can't point at those with real problems and pretend that it's anything to do with them.
Speaking of frothing at the mouth, how exactly do you think people with genuine eating disorders feel when they see fat, lazy people using them as an excuse to be fat and lazy?
Ivor can joke about the chocolate bar, and I do laugh, but it's quite close to the truth for me. Oh, did I forget to mention that (my psychologist tells me) I have an eating disorder?
I have again deleted a frothing-at-the-mouth diatribe. My own experiences are not especially relevant to this discussion beyond Cuddles's question about how people with genuine eating disorders feel about it, and I don't want to derail the thread into a discussion of eating disorders as they are a tiny minority. I only mentioned it because I am tired of the unchallenged assumptions that 1) "discipline" around weight is universally a good thing and 2) that
all fat people are only fat because they're lazy or greedy or ignorant. I have not even once seen an "except for eating-disordered people" disclaimer in a weight-related thread on this forum.
In the interest of answering Cuddles's question, though, it would not bother me (assuming I have a "real" eating disorder) because I would have no idea whether or not said fat, lazy person actually has an eating disorder. If you could somehow prove that this person is just fat because he's lazy, and his laziness is simple laziness without phobias or anxieties underlying it, then I might be briefly and mildly annoyed. The situation is so rare in my experience that it is trivial and not worth being upset over.
Or maybe since my "eating disorder" isn't making me thin, it's not a real one and my opinion is irrelevant. I imagine those with anorexia or bulimia may have a different opinion than mine, but I cannot speak for any of them.
I'm not claiming that 30% of the population has an eating disorder (I have no idea what the real number may be, but it seems likely quite small). For the record, my theory is more like what ZirconBlue proposed about changing lifestyles without changing biology (thumbs up, sir!).
What I am trying to say, in my clumsy way, is that any given fat person you meet could be like me, and that demonizing all fat people as lazy and self-indulgent is not helpful, original,
or interesting. We can get that crap anywhere. Has there been a discussion I missed that was a little more thoughtful than "put the fork down"?
This is what interests me: What drives the average dude/dudette to gain weight in today's (presumably Westernized) society, where slenderness is next to godliness? What's spurring the obesity epidemic when, now more than ever, people want to be skinny? It's uninformative to read over and over again, "30% of people are just lazy and stupid (unlike me)."
Why do some people -- but not others -- find it hard to put the fork down? How do appetite and satiety work/how are they related/unrelated? How has becoming a "car culture" affected general activity levels of the population? Why don't people compensate with other activities? What have been the historical advantages of overeating behavior/craving certain foods/etc, and how have they become disadvantages?
Again I say, you guys are smarter than I am. Please cast your pearls of wisdom before me. "tl;dr" counts.
