ynot said:
No.
There is an infinite number of different reference frames from which any events can be observed and evaluated, but these are not different realities, any more than the infinite number of different possible camera angles for photographs of the Brooklyn Bridge are actually an infinite number of different bridges.
Angles of perception in the same “relative absolute reality“ (inertial frame) is not the same thing as Relativity claiming that time passes at relatively different rates in different “relative absolute realities” (inertial frames).
Of course they're not exactly the same thing. It's an analogy. But they're very very similar.
Imagine you were a member of an isolated tribe that never invented perspective drawing. So in your whole life you've never seen a drawing with perspective, or a photograph. Then, someone comes along and shows you photographs of the Brooklyn Bridge taken from different angles. Your tribe uses rope suspension bridges, so with a bit of explanation you understand the bridge, but what you can't understand is why the bridge looks different in pictures from different angles.
You tell the stranger: "In this picture, the tower at one end is higher. In this picture, the tower at the other end is higher. And yet you're claiming that they're both the same height, like in this third picture here. Each picture shows the bridge having different properties, and yet you claim they're all the same bridge. That's a contradiction. What you must really mean is that the bridge exists in many different realities, and each picture shows a different reality."
The analogy goes fairly deep, because both our tribesman looking at perspective photographs for the first time, and you when you contemplate relativistic effects, are mistaking the effects of a rotation of viewpoint as changes in the actual properties of the observed object/event. For the bridge photos, the rotation is of the camera position in 3-space relative to the bridge; for relativistic observations, the rotation is of the observer in 4-dimensional spacetime relative to the event observed.
One key point is that just as the camera angle from which it's photographed is not an intrinsic property of a bridge, a reference frame is not an intrinsic property of a moving object. A reference frame is a property of the observer.
It's a language shortcut, and therefore potentially misleading, to speak of "an object observed from its own reference frame." What that really means is "an object observed from a reference frame in which the object's velocity is zero."
It becomes really misleading when you start describing a change in velocity (an acceleration) of an object as the object "changing reference frames." Since a reference frame is not a property of the object, it doesn't change when the object accelerates. It's up to the person evaluating the subsequent events whether to keep the same reference frame and calculate the effects of the acceleration within that reference frame, or change reference frames and calculate the effects of that change in reference frame. This will lead to two different ways of doing the math, but the results will be the same.
In one reference frame, a clock ticks faster than it does in another. In one reference frame, a rocket is longer than it is in another. Not different realties. The same reality, observed from different angles in spacetime.
Respectfully,
Myriad