Exactly my point. Christianity isn't even close to organized. There are hundreds of denominations, thousands of small churches who don't even claim a denomination, and people like Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson do not speak for the majority of practicing Christians. They go to church on Sunday to enjoy the fellowship of their fellow believers, and to receive a lesson on the "word of God." (If it seems like I know a lot about this, I grew up being a Christian thanks to my parents. I also grew out of it.) Most of them don't watch the 700 Club, think Robert Tilton is a crook, are absolutely disgusted by Phred Phelps, and are everyday people just like you and me whose experiences and insights have led them to the path of believing in a higher power as viewed through the focus of the Bible and Christian ideology. How does that makes them culpable for the actions of a mentally ill trigger-happy bigot in another part of the country again? And why are they obligated to do anything at all?
The kinds of preachers spewing that firebrand rhetoric represent an infantesimal minority of Christians in the U.S. If you were to walk into any church on any street corner the Sunday after Katrina, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't find a preacher spitting venom about how we brought this on ourselves. You'd be more likely to find them taking up a collection for the relief effort.
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This was a wonderful post, Joey. I share your experience having grown up in a Lutheran family, and forced to attend parochial school till grade 8. And we were active church goers, and involved in church functions. This put me in contact with
many other Lutheran families.
Over the years I quickly lost all my faith (it wasn't strong to begin with). By my late teens I had given up completely, much to my mother's dismay. I have never gone back.
I mention this because I realize that, to some, having come from that environment may make a person more likely to support them when they are wrong, or turn a blind eye, etc.
Disclaimer aside, my experience has been the same as yours. The vast, vast majority of people I met and got to know were good, honest, hard working family type people. They weren't out preaching in people's faces. They weren't judgemental. The overwhelming theme was love and helping each other. I never once heard anything regarding abortion other than the belief that it was a sin. Nothing about the people who do it. At least nothing more than "they will have to answer to God one day". Never a suggestion that it was anyone else's business but God's to deal with it.
Same with homosexuality. These subjects rarely even came up at all, and if they did, it was in a way that was to feel sorry for these people and hope that God would help them. Not once did I ever hear anyone proclaim anything remotely resembling violence. EVER.
I think that this part of my life is what lead me to have such a strong sense of empathy. Heck I think part of what drew me away from church was that it was so dreadfully dull and boring. All nicey nice and love love love. No fun. Everything I enjoy is "wrong".
Sadly, it's all too common for people to demonize entire groups based on the actions of a few. It's all too easy to rationalize it to one's self when it's regarding an issue on which you feel you have strong moral superiority. But all the same, it's still a fallacy. It's the same thinking that leads to the idea that all blacks are untrustworthy. Or that all Italians are evil, wife beating mobsters. Or that all environmentalists are nutjobs and potential uni-bombers. Or that all militia members are Timothy McVeigh in waiting.
As I said earlier, no one has a monopoly on spewing hatred and lies to stir people up and create problems. No one. I think Cleon said it great as well, which is why I have nominated him also.