His response is counter to mine which is faith. I have faith that tells me no matter how crummy or painful life gets for me or those around me God will one day wipe every tear away and restore us. Why he allows so much suffering is still and will always be a mystery.
Our life is but a vapor that will pass quickly, but what we do while we are alive is what matters. I accept God on his terms, this does not mean I always understand him or why he allows certain things in life. Perhaps I have more understanding and empathy for others who suffer and this is the reason God allowed it in my own life.
In Don Pipers book 90 Minutes in Heaven he talks about this same subject. He went through way worse and I suggest you read his book to seek another perspective on this question of suffering. He has been able to minister to others who went through some of the same suffering he endured and feels that it was God's purpose in bringing him back from the dead in a fatal car crash even though what he went through was nothing none of us would want to go through. Worth a read.
Hey, nice dodge, there.
Funny, it seems to me that Warren Wiersbe had a better grasp on suffering, as did Dr. Walter Martin, than what you're projecting here. And even as you're continuing to bleat your "evangelism," you're continuing to ignore the whole point that Hokulele has been trying to make. This, of course, makes a lie of all you say.
And frankly, I resent that.
One thing you refuse to accept is that when it comes to suffering, (and I mean the real thing, not just mere tolerance of discomfort), there isn't any point behind it. Suffering simply happens. We all will endure it, from one degree or another, and the results are what they are. Some of us will endure it and emerge stronger. Most of us will simply go through it, and wind up wounded. More than a few of us will enter into it, and in the end, will be broken. There is no easy answer to this, and to suggest that there is not only denies the very god you claim as the author of your salvation, but it degrades those here who have gone through true suffering. It's an insult. And you know it.
You continue to appeal to our emotions, perpetuating the conclusion that you're dishonest and evasive, and this is further enforced by your refusal to actually read the book that you agreed to, rather that you listened to it in a recording. There was a reason behind asking you to actually read the book, and that you ignore those reasons indicates that what intelligence you possess, you refuse to use. It's an insult to people like Hokulele, and it's an insult to my wife, who, if she were in your shoes, would not only have read the book, but would have given honest, direct answers to questions posed.
Right now, Kathy, my "brother," Will, is in his room, sleeping. He lost his wife, Lani, a couple of years ago when she died of ovarian cancer. She knew something was wrong, but the employer where Will and I worked didn't provide health coverage, and it was discovered too late. Lani died in excruciating pain after the cancer metastasized and spread through her liver, her kidneys, into her bones and her brain. Will has yet to forgive himself for "letting" this happen to her.
Much of your suffering has come about through your own actions. From what you've described, you do something that places yourself in trouble, and from there, things roll downhill as they normally do. Lani wasn't in that situation: she tried to take care of herself, and Will, and the cancer simply came. There's little information regarding the how and why of this disease, but what information we have has not come from an ancient book which has been mistranslated, misused, and degraded by the political will of those who wanted nothing more than to control the ignorant and weak willed, and were willing to keep people ignorant in order to accomplish their objectives. It has come from men and women who were unwilling to accept suffering, and were willing to challenge their own ignorance.
This, you see, led to experimentation, examination, study, education. We went from being a mass of primitive hunter-gatherers, subsisting on what edible plants we could find and what small game we could kill to people capable of remaking our world, even to the point of it's near total destruction if we so chose. Thankfully, we have not chosen; self-preservation is a powerful tool in its own right, and it's worth a degree of respect. As such, we've learned means of helping those who suffer, mainly because we don't want to suffer ourselves.
And we've gained some insight into ovarian cancer, and we've learned a few strategies to combat it. We've learned through trial and error, we've recognized that suffering is pointless, and we're now doing what we can to alleviate it.
There are choices in life, and not the least of these is whether you should live responsibly or irresponsibly. Responsible actions are those which take a longer view, which mandate that we examine the repercussions of the choices we make. We try to teach our children to do this, in hopes that they will learn from our mistakes and avoid making them themselves. It doesn't always work, but hope does spring eternal. When we live irresponsibly, the results are unfortunate, but what results is only suffering for those who have been unwillingly dragged into the vortex.
Lani suffered. She tried to do what was responsible, but learned that she was too late. And now, Will suffers. He misses Lani.
The authors you seem to want us to read are Hell-bent (intentional) on telling us there's something noble in suffering, or that the highest call of man is to help others accept their suffering. The more I read of Mother Teresa and her order, and the pitiable little they did to end the suffering of others, the more I become enraged. Suffering is not to be endured, it's not noble, it's pointless and wasteful. I don't want to be ministered to, I want the suffering to stop, and I want to follow a path which doesn't just alleviate suffering, but prevents it in the first place, which was one of the key goals of civilization in the first place.
And if you had any interest in preventing suffering, which is one hell of a lot more noble cause than "ministering" to people, you would have read the book, and we wouldn't be wasting our time with this silliness.
ETA: I'm now going to go watch some porn, just so I can get the slime from Kathy's "arguments" out of my head.