c4, I too get dismayed when scientists say things like "there's no water there, so there couldn't be life." I've heard it said so many times on The Discovery Channel that it makes me want to throw things. Not that I'm hugely optimistic about the existence of alien life, though I bet it exists in some form somewhere, but yeah, I'm confused as to why people think that way too.
This really comes down to what Lonewulf said about resources. I also get annoyed when people say things like that, but generally what they mean is "There's no matter, so there couldn't be life
as we know it.". As has been pointed out several times in this thread, all we know for sure about life is that it can exist and that it's happened at least once. We can speculate about possible other forms of life and where they might be able to occur, but the only type we know can exist is made of carbon and needs water. Given the needle in a needle-stack nature of the search for any life, it makes sense to focus on that which we know is at least possible, rather than waste time and resources speculating about things which not only may not be possible, but which we may not recognise even if they were.
Now, as for being carbon-based, that I can understand more clearly. Still, I don't think it should be seen as a 100% necessity.
The argument for carbon based life is one of the stronger areas of speculation about alien life. The problem is that life needs a large amount of variability, and carbon is the only element that can really provide it. Silicon can form long chains but they tend to be fairly boring repetitions, with anything more complex being unstable. Other than that, we don't know of any other way of forming large, complex molecules.
On the other hand, as far as I know this isn't really something anyone worries about. Carbon isn't all that uncommon. Finding more complex organic molecules may be something to get excited about, but the presence of carbon in any solar system can be pretty much taken for granted. Scientist might hail the discovery of the spectrum of water around a star as promising for the possibility of life, but I've never heard of anyone citing a lack of carbon as a reason to be pessemistic about it.
But isn't that more a matter of definition? Where the universe, as I understand it, is now defined as
where there is any matter, and wouldn't that mean that you could indefinitly expand the universe by extending beyond the border of the current edge of the universe?
Theoreticly speaking you could travel beyond the edge of the universe, but since you're matter you wouldnt ever be outside it, just uh, expanding it?
No. There is no such thing as "outside the universe". It's not matter that's expanding, it's space itself.
I should note, howver, that not all theories say the universe is finite, and our observations are not yet good enough to tell for sure. The universe is certainly much larger than the observable universe, but beyond that we're just not sure.