Sure, you can speculate, but speculation isn't evidence.
Not the point. There's a critical epistemic difference between the god case and the life on other planet cases. Now let's go over that critical difference again.
In order for life to exist on other planets, something we know damned well happened at least once, would merely have to happen again. Do not make a straw man out of this--this is not an argument that there is life on another planet--this is an argument that there is a critical difference. And yes, there's no evidence "that it happened again", but that's not even remotely the point.
The point isn't that one leads you to two. The point is that one is greater than zero; or, alternately, is much closer to two than zero is. And in fact,
compared to zero, from an
epistemic perspective, one is a very big deal, given the combinatorially huge number of things that are possible, that simply from a pigeonhole perspective aren't true, and the tiny, miniscule fraction of things that are.
In all fairness I should qualified my statement by saying that there is no compelling evidence that aliens exist (just as there is no compelling evidence that a god exists).
Yes. Both extrapolate. They are exactly the same in that they both extrapolate. But there's still that critical difference.
There is no compelling evidence that what occurred on this planet has occurred elsewhere, and not even compelling evidence that it having occurred elsewhere is probable.
Correct. Both extrapolate. They are exactly the same in that they both extrapolate.
But one is on much, much firmer ground than the other, because knowing something happened a single time is a very big deal.