JoeEllison
Cuddly Like a Koala Bear
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Well I don't think people should ditch their friends... nor would I tell anyone to stop their beliefs... but I don't believe faith is a good way to know anything and I don't think it's harmless to promote it or defer to it. I was a kid of faith... I was afraid of atheists... I wish I knew adults who could speak the way I now speak. There needs to be room for people to discuss doubts... to discuss whether belief is good or not. I guess I am just accustomed to people hearing it as an attack no matter how nice you say that. I'm sure Dawkins gets that too. I always think of this video:
I wish I was as brave as that kid... I don't want to be an adult that encourages this kind of bigotry. Most people don't mention their beliefs around me... I tend to assume that people are rational.... and I hardly say anything when they invoke astrology or god or whatever... unless there is the presumption that I agree or believe too. I don't treat religion any differently than I treat other woo. And I don't think a Christian is more entitled to blabber about their beliefs than a Scientologists nor a psychic believer. I don't think it's right to praise Jesus any more than I think it's right to praise Allah--
I think there is no nice way to tell people that their faith is as wooish as all the other faiths they don't believe, and by golly it would be nice if they kept their faith as private as they wish those who believe differently would keep theirs. I mean people always hear criticism of religion as criticism of believers or even oppression of believers. They always hear criticism of faith as a means of knowledge as criticism of the faithful. But if you support the paradigm or defer to the paradigm that "faith is good", then little girls kids like me sometimes grow into big kids ready to obey whomever and whatever they've come to have faith in. Whether it's hellfire Christianity, Sylvia Browne, Scientology, fundamentalism, or homeopathy. It creates sloppy thinking, and the only way to get people to consider this is to ruffle some feathers sometimes. If people hear stridency in Dan Dennett then there is no way I can avoid offending people. And if it means a little less prejudice like the clip I linked-- then I am glad. I wish I would have had smart people around speaking up when I was her (Nicole Smallkowski's) age. I would have been cowed into pretending. Heck, I was cowed into pretending.
I don't tell people my opinion of their beliefs in real life-- I'd prefer not to know them if they need me to respect them. But on line, I say what I'm getting bolder.
And people do lie all the time about being atheists or not being creationists. You might not. But I've come across quite a few. Really. It's not hard. Ask them why they are atheists or what they were before and what changed their mind. They'll answer obliquely or with a stereotyped view of what an atheist was (mad at god).
I'm looking foward
