I like to think of it as loading the dice, but still so that there is chance about the outcome... (a deleterious mutation loads the dice heavily agianst survival).
Do you see my point, even if you don't accept it?
Actually I think of it modulating the mean value for the number of reproducing offspring per parent, and thus the chance of the traits being transmitted or surviving for a particular number of generations. (Assuming a poisson distribution, which I would argue is probably adequate.)
Thinking about the actual odds, the stability or otherwise of populations and the brood-sizes, you can conclude that any individual organism at birth is unlikely to breed.
Barn owls, for example, have a clutch-size of about 5, (many sources, for example
here), mates at one year old, tends to live for 1-5 years inthe wild, and 15-20 years in a more benign environment, they can have two broods in a year.
A successful pair of barn owls could easily produce 25 chicks over that 5 years. However the population is declining in many parts of the world.
This means that on average, fewer than two chicks per pair will produce breeding offspring. The odds of a barn-owl chick surviving to breed could be *about* 1:12.
It is thus far more likely for a deleterious to be removed than for an advantageous one of a similar effectiveness to be retained.
Suppose a chick had a trait that doubled its chances of successfull reproduction; it would now have a 1:6 chance of successful reproduction. This
particular trait, arising in a single individual is 6x more likely to die out in one generation than survive.
Suppose a chick had a trait that halved its chances of reproduction; it would now have a 1:24 chance of successful reproduction. This trait, arising in a single evolution, is 24x more likely to die out within a single generation than to survive.
If the advantageous trait conferred a 11.5x advantage compared to the lack of trait,
then the odds of the chances of survival for one generation would be 11.5:12=23/24, and the odds of the trait being
removed would be 1:24, the same as the odds of the original deleterious trait
surviving.
Given a large enough population, and enough time, of course
some beneficial traits will survive, and once established, will spread through the population.
Again, how likely this is for a particular trait, can best be explored with a probabilistic treatment.