I think this is an issue with younger people. When you are young, the process (things likely to kill you) is most likely quite painful. Car accident, gunshot, stabbing, etc.
I dont appreciate you telling me what I think based on my age, because you are wrong. and I think that I would much rather die in a car accident than of something like cancer, its a lot less painful. seriously. The pain and legnth of death is a concern for pretty much everyone who thinks about it, its not an age issue at all.
I dont think about death the way you are thinking i do at all.
I work in a hospital, i know that knowing whats 'likely' to kill me doesnt mean I wont get cancer next year. i know a car accident can disable just as easily as it can kill. Quite often there is nothing you can do to prevent this kind of life event, it just happens. I drive like a granny and I try to take care of myself, but i realize that anything could happen tomorrow. Im not one of those people who thinks that "it couldnt happen to me". Ive seen friends get cancer in their teens. It was sobering.
As you age, the things that will kill you become more of a relief.
I dislike of the tone of your entire post. I have had a lot of experience with death and I know
some elderly people who have expressed this sentiment to me, but Im not comfortable agreeing with you. You are trying to speak for a large amount of people, and I have a lot of respect for the elderly and think they can speak for themselves. My grandmother says stuff like that all the time and she doesnt have any serious medical conditions, and ive heard the exact opposite sentiment from other elderly people who were in bad shape, that they wanted so badly.
When you are laying in your bed at the age of 100, wearing a diaper and having all your bodily functions taken care of by machines and being medicated to control pain, almost any form of death will be a relief.
wow, someone has a negetive view of aging. Im looking forward to aging personally, ill know so much and grow so much as a person by then.
Living to be old does not mean you will die in a slow painful manner. Lots of people die in their sleep because of old age, or commit suicide, or have a medical occurance that kills them very quickly, or die in car accidents or from a criminal act, etc etc.
Plenty of people really start living as seniors, becoming happier as a senior than they were at any other period of time in their life. Those people dont want to die even when they are in a lot of pain. these sorts of elderly people always warm my heart when i meet them, often they have found love. its so sweet.
as the saying goes, **** happens. You cant count on anything when it comes to dying, its silly to think you can. all i can do is try to take care of myself and hope.