Noooooooo!
Erg, what was I thinking.
* Taffer;2481012 hides in the corner.
Is this a reference to the departed one who used to "drink and post"?--
Last I saw, he was imbibing and blathering at skeptic.com.
I thought my explanation was worthy--as were most.
But here's a good, short video that is useful regarding human skulls:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwD98VB1zvU
You (the OP) has chosen a broad topic, but there are some great videos on youtube that can give you the "non-pat" answer you are looking for, but creationists aren't very good at "non-pat" answers.
You can also point out that if evolution is a lie, all the scientists in the world are in on it, including forensic scientists, the Smithsonian, all Natural History Museums, National Geographic, PBS, the BBC, CBC (Canadian), and ABC. And Turkey is the only country in the developed words who have fewer people who understand or "believe in" one of the most compelling and well supported and accepted "theories" of all time. And their lack of belief is due to fundamental Muslim thinking. In the U.S. it's due to ignorance and Fundamental Christian thinking. There is no controversy in science. The controversy is between religious fundamentalists and scientific facts.
Here are a couple of more sources.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bV4_lVTVa6k
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XDn5SqE9jc&mode=related&search=
And PBS has great videos has well that you can play right on your computer if you really want the facts.
But there are tons of "fossils" in our DNA as well--genes that we no longer use that are active in our ancestors--the vitamin C gene, for example. All organisms carry remnants of fossil genes--genes from their ancestors that are broken or mutated or turned off or stuck in the junk DNA. We can see that. In the molecular record, we can see what changes took place between us and Chimps. With fossils we have to take what we can find...what lasted. But just because you can't fill in every piece of the puzzle, doesn't mean you can't figure out what the big picture is and where, approximately each piece goes. Radiometric dating and genetics fills in the gaps beautifully and in stunning detail--we are discovering life forms everywhere--in the air we breath, and on our skin and in the ocean--and in the depths of the ocean we are seeing "aliens" we could not have imagined. Boneless aliens which aren't likely to fossilize. DNA, like fossils, degrades over time, but we are getting better at finding it, copying it, and analyzing it. We've got both nuclear and mitochondrial DNA from Neanderthals, and the information it has given us has been compelling. There were other hominids besides humans who walked the earth at the same time as humans. The "hobbits" of Flores are another example for whom we have some compelling fossil evidence and studies, but no DNA yet.
Please learn the answer to your question, because it is some of the most fascinating stuff humans have had the privilege of knowing. I teach biology, and I post pictures of fossils, weird creatures we are discovering, the latest updates on the family tree (put "tree of life" in a google search), hybrids like ligers and Zonkeys--and their common ancestor, skeleton comparisons of various primates (living and extinct)--and then I let them ask the questions.
I think the answers are obvious and the fossil records more complete than you think. Even my "special" students with religious indoctrination--can't help but notice that Humans are not the same as Neanderthals--and yet primates are all similar in some ways distinguishable from other mammals--just as mammals are similar in some ways distinguishable from other vertebrates. They also can't help but see that we share amazing similarities with apes. I also have some good clips of Apes exhibiting very human emotions including 2 clips of gorillas protecting a child who fell into the gorilla exhibit at a zoo.
National Geographic, the Natural History Museum in New York, and Humanorigins.org (from the Leaky foundation?) are all excellent sources of info. and contain interactives. People enjoy looking at the tree of life (there are great visuals all over the web). Molecular studies recently showed that hippopotami (sp?) are more related to whales then they are to land mammals.
And that's the thing about fossils--some things that are distantly related look very similar, and some things like dogs and wolves that are the same species--yet they have vastly different pheontypes and would confuse anyone trying to sort them out based on their fossils. DNA sorts out these conundrums.
I'm sorry for thinking you were a creationist if you are not. But they do have this "wedge" strategy where they try to get their agenda taught via sciency sounding words, and they sometimes dishonestly post here pretending to be interested in the actual science, when they really want to learn just enough to build a sciency sounding argument to refute the scientists--or at least something that sounds good to the people who fund them or believe in their teachings. And the compendium of knowledge just in the last couple of years is astounding.
You may not be able to educate someone who thinks faith is a good way to get knowledge, but don't let yourself keep from being educated. These are not "pat" answers. If you expect to explain anything to the ignorant, you are going to have to start with something simplistic. And it sounds as if you may need to build up your knowledge in this way as well. Science doesn't have easy answers--but they are useful and they are true and they lead to more knowledge. What more could you want?