Then I'm pissing in the wind. What is your point? My point was what I wrote in post 65 in this thread.
My point is that your post 65 is a poorly thought out, emotionally generated rant.
I never claimed that it did!
Upon careful re-reading, you did not. You got close, but you stopped short. My apologies.
But your argument is becoming clearer.
Now at least it has become rather clear what your implied idea is.
If my ideas are not clear, I'm sorry. I'm not implying anything, I'm intending to be forthright. If there is something you are not clear on, please ask, I will be more than happy to explicate.
Let me use an analogy: The scent of freshly baked bread may not exactly generate hunger, but it certainly stimulates it. Your body may crave food, you might be hungry even without the scent, but the scent is what makes you act on it
Wrong. It is the HUNGER which makes you act on it. Plenty of people can smell fresh bread and not go into a feeding frenzy. People can even smell fresh bread and not eat it even if they are "hungry"- maybe the bread doesn't belong to them.
- which is why you wouldn’t expose somebody who’s trying to lose weight to the scent of donuts fresh from the oven.
Wrong. The onus is on the dieter to control his own behavior. We don't outlaw donuts because some people have a problem controlling themselves.
In the case of paedophilia the sexual urge as such is physical, that children are the object of your desire, however, isn’t,
It isn't? please explain in what dimension or ether it resides, then.
it’s a perversion of the sexual instincts.
Prove it. In any case, I'm not championing pedophilia. I'm arguing for freedom of expression.
(Some socio-biologists might claim that it is genetic, I don’t know, but I don’t think so. Nor do I think that the gene for girdle fetishism or sniffing bicycle seats will ever be discovered! But unlike paedophilia those perversions are fairly victimless and thus uninteresting in th context of this discussion.)
Ask a girdle salesperson sometime about fetishism being "victimless". But that aside, this whole discussion of the "roots of pedophilia" is completely irrelevant to this discussion.
Your argument seems to be that since the desire of paedophiles does not depend on kiddie porn as a stimulant, the stimulant does not matter: sexual desire as such does not depend on porn.
That's part of it, yes.
We (normal, heterosexual men)
I'm going to mention in passing that I don't agree with your equating "heterosexual" with "normal".
may desire the women we meet in our everyday lives, and if we are excluded from or cannot think of a way of approaching them, we may dream up fantasies about them instead. We may also use porn to release the sexual tension. Porn stimulates the imagination, ‘facilitates the fantasy’ needed to get off, to release sexual tension without a partner, without having real sex.
That's what I said. Do you think that people only use "porn" in their sexual fantasies? Do you think that material that is not intended in anyway to stimulate sexual desire cannot nevertheless do so?
If you look at ordinary pornography,
Why don't you explain what you consider "ordinary pornography".
its purpose is clear: Heterosexual men (if they are not rapists) desire to have sex with a consenting woman, and pornography presents them with women posing as if they want to have sex, naked and available … and imaginary:
The only "purpose" of pornography is to make money. That is why it is produced and made available. What the end user does with it is completely inconsequential to the creator.
photos of a woman pretending, simulating that she wants to have sex (or actually having it … with somebody else).
It sounds like your exposure to porn has been pretty limited and your ideas about it are frankly quaint.
For the same reason I do not think that mothers need to worry if they find this kind of porn under their sons’ beds.
It depends on what they are doing with it.
Like all fiction it is a lie. (The woman in the photo does not desire to have sex with you.)
You don't know that- she's not met me yet.
But it stimulates a very realistic fantasy (probably): that there are women out there who are not only willing to consent to having sex with you, they will probably even enjoy having it too! This makes it fairly harmless to encourage this particular fantasy.
Thanks for the trip to the "Leave it to Beaver" set. You've failed to make any sort of point with it.
Who, in your estimation, gets to decide what sort of fantasies an adult may be "encouraged" to have"? Who is the arbiter of which fantasies are "fairly harmless"?
Unlike kiddie porn: Children not only don’t generally want to have sex with adults, if they do, it is probably because their behaviour has become sexualised by previous abuse.
Prove it.
Therefore the fantasy of having sex with children should be discouraged.
That's as may be, but you CAN'T! Even if all forms of explicit material involving sex with children were to vanish overnight, people who want to f[rule 8] children will still fantasize about it. The only think you will accomplish is that a whole bunch of civil rights will be trodden on.
It may not only ”facilitate the fantasy” and help the unfortunate paedophile get off, it may also persuade him that this is the way children are and should be treated.
You see that word "may"? That's not enough to trade a basic civil right for. Like our donut-crazed dieter, it is incumbent on the person to rein in that desire, not on society to remove all temptaion.
Some people want to commit murder, do we outlaw murder mysteries?
Some people want to rob a casino, do we ban "Ocean's 11"?
Some people want to f[rule 8] animals, do we burn all our copies of "Babe, Pig in the City"?
And paedophiles not only want to, they actually need to believe this! (to paraphrase what James Randi says about woowoos.)
So? Do you think if we outlawed Sylvia's books people would stop beliving in psychics?
And apparently people who crave sex with children are often people with a history of abuse. They themselves may have been victimized by paedophiles when they were children.
Not really relevant to the issue at hand, as I said above.
And this is why counselling should be encouraged instead of (very wrong) fantasies.
If someone feels they are at the point of crossing a line from fantasy into action, yes, they should.
Up to and until the point where he stops fantasising and acts, though, no one on this planet should have the right to control how he thinks.