Perhaps I should share my personal, emotional, experienced based opinion on abortion to present the opposite side to luke t's experiences.
I went to a high school with a teen pregnancy program, it was the only one for quite a ways so most teen mothers from neighboring towns who wanted a diploma would end up there.
I can not begin to express how sorry I felt for the children of those mothers.
The teen moms got their own home room, where they were taught how to care for children and were taught about birth control. It didnt matter, most of them got pregnant again after attending the school, they learned nothing. The number of people being investigated by CPS also showed that caring for their own children is too much of a challenge for many of them.
Two of them were sisters who were third generation teen mothers. Being pregnant at an early age where they are unable to afford or care for children is a normal thing in their gene pool, almost doomed into being unable to pass on a sense of responsibility to their children. Other girls had mothers who were pregnant as teens as well. Despite having their own mothers raise them poorly, most decided to have babies young. The reason most often sited for this is being pro life for religious reasons. Jesus never gives people more than they can take, right?
Some of them were drug addicts and alcoholics, unwilling to give up their habits even during second or third pregnancies. One girl kept coming to school and using alcohol despite being ordered to take bedrest and having to take magnesium pills to keep her from expelling a 1.5 lb fetus three months early. She did give birth to her baby, it weighed a little over two pounds and was pre mature. Other babies had serious health problems due to the drug use of their mothers.
There were only one or two girls who did not have some sort of serious issue.
Almost all of these women were on government assistance and congradulated each other when their children were approved for government programs. The ones who did have jobs were in food service. They were less mature than the average teenager, and didnt seem to grow up at all no matter how much they messed up their childrens lives by being arrested or using drugs or choosing men over their own children. I can't imagine coming out of these situations with a healthy childhood.
An awful lot of them had serious emotional problems. Manipulation, constant lying, unprovoked aggressive behavior, psyical violence (domestic as well), theft, and every kind of drama you can imagine was not uncommon.
The sad part of it was that these women were in the minority of teen mothers who actually cared enough to finish high school.
Statistics show that society usually pays the price long after the children of these mothers turn 18 and move out- sons of teen moms are much more likely to go to prison and commit crimes, and daughters of teen moms are much more likely to become teen mothers and perpetuate the cycle.
Saying that women who dont use birth control deserve to have children isnt quite correct- what is really being said is that children who are concieved out of stupidity deserve to be born and raised by irresponsible people. I dont think that children deserve these kinds of situations, they do not ask to be born. Children deserve to grow up wanted and cared for, and adoption does NOT ensure that. There are far too many children out there being hurt because of something they had no part in, and we all know that these situations are not exclusive to teen motherhood. Seeing that much wrong going on twards children does something to you, especially when there are so many people working very hard to help those women fix their lives and it makes no difference. If abortion is murder, its a mercy killing.