Emily's Cat
Rarely prone to hissy-fits
Or maybe I don't think there is a losing faction in the first place? And maybe if you paid attention you would have noticed that I challenged the assumptions that reds made - and they pretty much all acknowledged that babies make a difference to their decision?Maybe because people had already answered the question, and had no inclination to engage with the losing faction trying to reframe it, in order to appear less self-centred?
Maybe it's not competition, it's not self centered, and it's entirely feasible for more than one approach to be reasonable and valid.
Or... you could just call people names if they don't agree with you.