Transwomen are not Women - Part 15

Then why did you post the below? That I was replying to.


Literally separating gender and sex once again, whilst not realizing one had done so.
He's literally combining gender and sex. Man and woman are sex labels. They're also gender labels, because gender=sex.

Some people are trying to change this. We're not playing along. You are playing along with them. Stop helping them try to separate gender from sex. Gender separate from sex is functionally meaningless.
 
The justification for smoking bans is that smoking in enclosed spaces produces external harms, ie, harms to people other than the smoker. Smoking outdoors doesn't pose the same risks because smoke concentrations dilute much more rapidly outdoors (although in the US at least, smoking is often prohibited near building entrances/exits). Smoking in your home arguably creates external harms to your children (who had no choice in the arrangement), but not to third parties. So it's harm to third parties which is used to justify such smoking bans. Preventing that harm is the benefit of such bans. The cost is reduced personal freedom, possible economic losses from smokers boycotting smoke-free venues, and even just the enforcement cost. The arguments against these bans can mostly be split into two kinds: that benefits of bans is lower than claimed, or that the costs of bans is higher than claimed.

A hard-core libertarian might argue that the government has no authority to make such rules in the first place (which is essentially a form of the second argument against bans: the cost of banning is too high), but that argument doesn't gain any significant political traction nowdays. Laws frequently restrict personal freedom in order to reduce or prevent external harms. This principle is essentially universally accepted nowdays as acceptable. What we argue about isn't the principle itself, but the particulars of how much harm we're preventing and at what cost.

One can make the same basic argument regarding self-ID bathroom policies. When an obviously male person enters a women's bathroom, that can cause distress to women in the bathroom. That's an external harm: someone other than the male choosing to enter the bathroom has been negatively affected by that choice. Prohibiting that choice prevents that harm. There's a cost to doing so: the male person is deprived of his preference. If it's a law rather than a choice by the property owner, then the property owner has had his freedom to set policy reduced. There may be enforcement costs as well. But the idea of a reduction in freedom of choice in order to reduce or prevent harm isn't fundamentally different than, say, a speed limit. It's really just a question of how big you think the benefits are, and how big you think the costs are. And in this calculus, there is no objective scale. There are some objective facts which might help to inform your evaluation (such as, how many trans identifying males are there? How often do they make women uncomfortable by being in the bathroom? Etc), but how you weigh different costs against each other always come down to a value judgment, which must always be subjective.
That doesn't address the point I was interested in. If a pub declared itself to be a smokers' pub in big letters and an unmissable graphic to avoid language differences above the door, we can assume that those deciding to enter have done their personal risk assessment and decided to go in (with reasonable access to a smoke-free pub nearby). Similarly, if a woman wants to mingle with other women and with men who identify as women, and has suitable notice that that's what the social space is, we can assume that she has reason enough to want to do that (again, assuming this is the minority or at least that there are plenty of sex-segregated establishments). I was, however, thinking more about gyms and clubs rather than public toilets, and while these will probably have toilets, that's not their main function. Even if we simply consider toilets, if there are enough female-only toilets to cater for women, and men's toilets for the men, we might also concede that another gender neutral toilet alongside doesn't necessarily pose a risk to women or men.
 
Ya think?


Unfortunately, that is not going to be easy. The TRA position is, and always has been, that no discussion or debate is allowed - the truth of a child's gender expression must be affirmed and accepted without any question.
What, they can't even change it?
There are people in Europe trying to get this codified into law, which if passed, would effectively tie the hands of any therapist or counsellor.
That would give a field day to any therapist or counsellor as the whole concept is that you can change your gender.

if kids are being told they have to stick to the gender they expressed then it's just the same thing all over again.
 
Utter bollocks - you're making stuff up out of whole cloth as you go.

The term "transwoman" did not originate with medical science or any other type of science. It had it's roots in the late 1960s with the the term "transgenderal", which was coined by the activist Virginia Prince,
This is why you are the thread's most annoying poster. You dont even read your own citations. From your link:

"Prince also helped popularize the term 'transgender', and erroneously asserted that she coined "transgenderist" and "transgenderism""
This evolved over time into "transgender" which then further evolved into the separate terms "transwoman" and "transman".
That's what I said, scooter.
The terms are lies... "transwomen" are not women, they are males, and "transmen" are not men, they are females. These are untruths in any reasonable interpretations of the language.
After all this time, you genuinely still can't wrap your head around the fact that 'transwoman' does not mean literary turned into a female, can you?
 
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That doesn't address the point I was interested in. If a pub declared itself to be a smokers' pub in big letters and an unmissable graphic to avoid language differences above the door, we can assume that those deciding to enter have done their personal risk assessment and decided to go in (with reasonable access to a smoke-free pub nearby).
And if a road has a posted sign saying no speed limit, then we can assume that those deciding to drive on it have done their personal risk assessment.

We don't operate that way. You could argue that we should, but we don't. There are various arguments for why we don't, but they're sufficiently off topic that I don't really want to pursue them here.
Even if we simply consider toilets, if there are enough female-only toilets to cater for women, and men's toilets for the men, we might also concede that another gender neutral toilet alongside doesn't necessarily pose a risk to women or men.
I don't think anyone objects to the voluntary provision of third "gender neutral" spaces. I certainly don't. But that doesn't satisfy the TRAs.
 
That would give a field day to any therapist or counsellor as the whole concept is that you can change your gender.
That's not quite the concept. The concept is that you can realize what your true gender actually is. In practice, that's the same thing as changing your gender, but the trans ideology conceptualization is that nothing changed, you only realized what it was all along. That includes being "gender fluid", where the switching itself IS your true gender.
if kids are being told they have to stick to the gender they expressed then it's just the same thing all over again.
Indeed. But they aren't usually being told that explicitly. Rather, they're being given positive feedback for having switched in the first place, and constantly encouraged to continue with that identity. They may even be discouraged from switching back, under the assumption that any desire to revert is driven by external pressure that they must resist. So they don't have to be told outright not to revert, the positive/negative feedback they get can apply incredible pressure even with no explicit demands. And yeah, it's ◊◊◊◊◊◊ up.
 
He's literally combining gender and sex. Man and woman are sex labels. They're also gender labels, because gender=sex.

Some people are trying to change this. We're not playing along. You are playing along with them. Stop helping them try to separate gender from sex. Gender separate from sex is functionally meaningless.

What I was replying to was this
Good for them.

But the bathroom you should use isn't a function of your gender role. It's a function of your sex.

They're literally literally literally referencing two different things.

the poster said 'It's not your gender role, it's your sex role'.

It's not A, it's B

You and the poster are insisting that A = B whilst subconsciously declaring that they are not. Social indoctrination, it does my head in.
 
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Do you misunderstand things on purpose, or are you really this confused?
Really confused, I think. After all, p0lka seems to be saying this critically:
Literally separating gender and sex once again, whilst not realizing one had done so.
when his usual beef is with people combining sex and gender, since he'd like them to be kept separate.
 
the poster said 'It's not your gender role, it's your sex role'.
I did not say that, even accounting for paraphrasing. I said,
But the bathroom you should use isn't a function of your gender role. It's a function of your sex.
Your sex is not a role. The important distinction here isn't between gender and sex, but between something that's a role (ie, socially constructed) and something that's not a role (ie, biological reality). My statement would have worked just as well had I said "sex role" instead of "gender role". But it would make no sense if I had said "sex role" instead of "sex", as you falsely claimed. I'm going to assume that this was not a deliberate lie, but the fact that you could substitute "sex role" for "sex" in what I said betrays your fundamental misunderstanding of this entire issue and the arguments at play here.
 
That's not quite the concept. The concept is that you can realize what your true gender actually is. In practice, that's the same thing as changing your gender, but the trans ideology conceptualization is that nothing changed, you only realized what it was all along. That includes being "gender fluid", where the switching itself IS your true gender.

Indeed. But they aren't usually being told that explicitly. Rather, they're being given positive feedback for having switched in the first place, and constantly encouraged to continue with that identity. They may even be discouraged from switching back, under the assumption that any desire to revert is driven by external pressure that they must resist. So they don't have to be told outright not to revert, the positive/negative feedback they get can apply incredible pressure even with no explicit demands. And yeah, it's ◊◊◊◊◊◊ up.
Oh that's not good. Society pressure once again.....◊◊◊◊.
 
And if a road has a posted sign saying no speed limit, then we can assume that those deciding to drive on it have done their personal risk assessment.
Yes, I was thinking earlier about race tracks, as a matter of fact.
We don't operate that way. You could argue that we should, but we don't. There are various arguments for why we don't, but they're sufficiently off topic that I don't really want to pursue them here.
OK, I understand and think I might have an idea what you mean.
I don't think anyone objects to the voluntary provision of third "gender neutral" spaces. I certainly don't. But that doesn't satisfy the TRAs.
Oh, ok, I thought you'd made that objection, in response to Damion. Maybe I'm wrong. I thought you'd objected to, say, a gym separating folk by their gender identity - although that's not exactly the same as gender neutral, which doesn't separate at all and just means 'sex neutral'.
 
People are separating sex and gender without realizing, whilst they're arguing the opposite, I'm just pointing it out.
Sometimes people here are equating the words 'gender' and 'sex' (as they once generally meant exactly the same thing), and sometimes they're talking about 'gender' more along the lines you are, as a role or set of expectations of one's sex. I think you're just not always aware what they're saying.

The gender critical folk are usually doing the latter in order to analyse the position of the gender activists and allies. I feel confident most GCs will agree that people should not feel societal pressure to fulfill an arbitrary gender role, just as you say we shouldn't.

The gender activists and allies are usually the only ones conflating those uses of the terms, switching as and when it suits, because they want to choose something they call their 'gender identity', but they hold the idea (overtly or more subtly), either that it's their actual sex or that their choice of gender should trump their sex in certain ways, like demanding to use the other toilet or, in at least one instance I remember, claiming they were discriminated against because they were refused gynecological services, despite being male without any reassignment surgery.

They range from the relatively sane, who know their sex but just want to behave and feel like the opposite (or none) to those who literally think their soul somehow got in the wrong body. Some therefore think of transition as moving towards the way they want to look, despite knowing their actual sex, while others are on a quest to fix the body that they think should never have been theirs, because they think their (inner, true) sex is right and their body is wrong.

In just about every account of 'transition' that I've read about, the person demonstrates that they thought they were 'trans' because of some gender role or stereotype. It may have been removed by now, but at one time the front page of the Mermaids uk website advertised the tremendous joy and freedom of a kid who 'came out as trans' and was on the path to medication and surgery. He was a boy, but at some point he knew he was a girl, it reported in his own words, because he never liked football like his other friends, and liked to hang about with the girls doing their sorts of games. Right in your face, there it was. The most regressive sexism, persuading kids they'd better get their body in line with their likes and dislikes.

/rant
 
And they aren't in this thread.
Indeed. So why do you keep comparing my use to saying things which are only offensive when you're 'rubbing it in someone's face'? No one's face is being rubbed with this.
It gets a bit trying to keep discussing this with voices in your heads and spooky invisible TRAs with MKULTRA powers.
If you're hearing voices, then those voices aren't in my head.
 
Again, you continue to conflate the process of science with institutions nominally engaged in that process. Science didn't label jack ◊◊◊◊. People and institutions did. And why am I bound by their choice? And why do you continue to misunderstand what science is? Your combination of arrogance and ignorance in this regard is rather staggering.

The choice of terms isn't science.

No. The Cass Review is not an example of self correction, it's an example of institutions responding to external pressure. They were right to do so, because that pressure was justified, but the idea that this was a self correction is wrong.
You're being beyond petty now. When you duck the point of the discussion to complain and harp about precision in irrelevant terms is beneath you, man.
The intent of my use is to signal that I don't accept trans ideology.
The term transwoman is free of any perticular ideology. Its a simple short label used so we can talk about the subject. To advocate a longer clunkier term (like transgender identified female for transman) that doesn't even substantialy clarify anything is also petty. Every poster that entered this thread since I began engaging has said "the what's this now?" when first confronted with it.
Apparently you find that offensive, but that's on you, not me. If I actually wanted to cause offense, I'd use the term that you have used: tranny. But I believe the only time I've ever used that term in this thread is in reference to YOUR unprompted use.
I've got The Pass, because I am a vocal anti-basher. Sin is in the intent.
 
Hell, that's awful. Not to undermine the political point, with which I agree, please do look into possible fixes for some of these, particularly the seatbelt, for your health and safety. It's wrong that you should need to, but maybe a cushion on the car seat and/or a bracket that fits on the upper mounting point of the seatbelt to lower it.
My spouse cobbled together a hook to lower the seat belt. It makes it more comfortable, but it's not like we've tested it in an actual crash, so who knows if it would do any good there.
As a short man, 5'6", I also find the dishes do my back in, and you've made me wonder if a low step of some kind might help.
I've considered a step for dishes, I just don't want to have to drag it out and put it away constantly. Mostly I try to just rinse and put in the dishwasher right away, or make my spouse deal with larger dishes that need hand-washing.

My mother really dislikes front-load washing machines for some reason I have yet to fathom. We're the same height... so they have a step stool so they can hang into the washer and reach the socks in the bottom. It's hilarious, and I think silly, but it was their choice. I can't complain too much - we tested multiple washers before selecting a front-load with buttons on the FRONT instead of the back. I can only reach the back buttons if there's no riser drawer underneath, or with a step stool. As it is, the front buttons are great, but I can't reach the cupboards over the washer at all. If my spouse ever needs to hide things from me, I'm pretty sure that's where they'll be. I honestly don't know if there's anything even up there!
 
Indeed. So why do you keep comparing my use to saying things which are only offensive when you're 'rubbing it in someone's face'? No one's face is being rubbed with this.
Any. Reader. In. This. Website. can see the bashing. You use their lingo, you wear their colors. Ever hear thd one about how many nazis are sitting at a table when there's four of them, and you join them?
If you're hearing voices, then those voices aren't in my head.
Not you so much as others, but every time you argue with my POV by justifying it based on some spooky invisible TRAs POV, you are working hard to give the impression that you certainly are hearing someone/thing else.
 
You could consult the online definition I provided earlier, or any trans discussion where the term is considered. Multiple Reddit threads have quite a bit to say on how rubbing "male" in the face of a transwoman who is very likely struggling with their gender identity is just ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ mean-spirited. Do we have to run a class here in how we don't repeatedly address people as crippled or deformed or fat, no matter how "scientifically accurate" you might claim you're being?
Do you not think there's a bit of a problem with a group of people demanding that everyone else has to use language that affirms their false belief in order to avoid causing offense? If people with transgender identities cannot hear reference to their objective and real sex without having distress, that speaks to a severe mental health disorder - one that needs treatment not coddling. Otherwise, you're essentially requiring that everyone play along with their desire and ignore reality to bolster their feelings. You're requiring that nobody can say that the emperor is naked.

While we've moved a bit away from saying "crippled", we're not being asked to pretend that a disabled person is normally abled. We're not being asked to say that a person in a wheelchair has a lovely walk, or to affirm how graceful their dancing is. And while it's certainly polite to not call obese people "fatty fatty boomballatty" or similar, but we're also not expected to laud them for being thin and svelte either.

So why should we be expected to only refer to males with transgender identities in terms that implicitly include granting them recognition as "women" when they are nothing of the sort?
 

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