Transwomen are not Women - Part 15

I think they are not absorbing what a gender is.
This is an amusing response. Are they not absorbing what gender is, or do they just use a different definition than you do. You've been so insistent that the gender critical folks are too inflexible about what the word "woman" means, and yet here you are, fixated on some definition of gender and insisting that anyone else who uses a different definition must be wrong.

But I don't even know what definition of gender you're even using.
If you are going to rely on my faceitious representation of "all dem trannies is mentally ill pervs" as not being a direct quote, there's no serious discussion to be had.
The choice is entirely yours as to whether or not you want to discuss things seriously. But not only is that not a direct quote, it's not even an accurate paraphrase or description. It is explicitly a lie.
Short version: we all agree sex is binary, and it is an immutable characteristic, yes?
Yes, it is. But sex isn't gender, something you've been adamant about in the past. "Nonbinary" can refer to gender, not sex. "Gender fluid" refers explicitly to gender, not sex. So sex being binary does not preclude anyone from being nonbinary or gender fluid.

Perhaps the long version will make more sense than the short version.
I can accept a crossed wire that makes you identify as one but not the other (I know one transwoman personally that I believe to be 100% sincere, and a couple "non binaries" that I believe to be 100% full of ◊◊◊◊) but saying "neither" or "both" or "ocelot" seems to me that you are not taking it seriously.
Like they're mentally ill? That's a position you have condemned others for. Well, that plus the whole "pervert" accusation. But that part is a lie. Nobody here thinks that all trans people are perverts. But some of them absolutely are, and that's all anyone here has claimed. So your condemnation, if honest, can only rely on the "mentally ill" part. Which is then hypocritical.
 
Hopefully the EU courts will reverse this nonsense.
Indeed, it's total nonsense to think that anything can ever be sex segregated. In fact, "Girlguiding" should be banned entirely on account of its discriminatory name. They should just do what the Boy Scouts did* and let any child of any sex or gender join, because boys and girls are completely interchangeable.

* And did this ever piss off the Girl Scouts.
 
Indeed, it's total nonsense to think that anything can ever be sex segregated. In fact, "Girlguiding" should be banned entirely on account of its discriminatory name. They should just do what the Boy Scouts did* and let any child of any sex or gender join, because boys and girls are completely interchangeable.

* And did this ever piss off the Girl Scouts.

It's not just about who is allowed to join,* it's about who gets to sleep and perform sanitary functions with whom. And the Scouts are not blameless there.

*both girls and boys benefit from their own sex-segregated social spaces in childhood and adolescence.
 
*both girls and boys benefit from their own sex-segregated social spaces in childhood and adolescence.
It's not acceptable to acknowledge this truth anymore. The sexes have to be both interchangeable and malleable.
 
EU courts have jurisdiction over UK organizations?
Only in the fever dreams of the most radical trans activists. Any one with a brain and a pulse knows that transgender identified males have NO place in Brownies or Girl Guides.

And just to be clear, EU courts have no jurisdiction in the UK. There is a seperate court called the ECHR (European Court of Human Rights.. not to be confused with the EHRC, the Equality and Human Rights Commission, which is British).

The ECHR came into being 75 years ago in the wake of WW2... many nations consider it outmoded and no longer fit for purpose.
 
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This is an amusing response.
Amused beats the feigned befuddlement, anyway.
Are they not absorbing what gender is, or do they just use a different definition than you do.
Yeah, someone might have mentioned getting clarification on what the ◊◊◊◊ it actually means for a year or so, right in this very tread.
But I don't even know what definition of gender you're even using.
I've been using the one that TRAs provided: your internal sense of self. But they change that usage when convenient, which I heartily and repeatedly object to.
The choice is entirely yours as to whether or not you want to discuss things seriously. But not only is that not a direct quote, it's not even an accurate paraphrase or description. It is explicitly a lie.
Then we've been reading different threads.
Yes, it is. But sex isn't gender, something you've been adamant about in the past.
And remain so, yes.
"Nonbinary" can refer to gender, not sex. "Gender fluid" refers explicitly to gender, not sex. So sex being binary does not preclude anyone from being nonbinary or gender fluid.
Right. What gender actually *is* precludes anyone from being nonbinary or gender fluid. Option Ocelot does not exist.
Perhaps the long version will make more sense than the short version.
Not to those who look to bicker instead of discuss.
Like they're mentally ill?
No, like they're full of ◊◊◊◊. We just went over that. Doing the "lol, lookit me, I'm so random" thing is unhelpful in an already contentious and difficult subject.
That's a position you have condemned others for.
I've slammed others for declaring themselves medical doctors, and for pretending AGP as something it is not, and for the other random medical diagnoses. I believe one of your more whacky ones was that transpeople do not actually exist, but are all faking it.
Well, that plus the whole "pervert" accusation. But that part is a lie. Nobody here thinks that all trans people are perverts. But some of them absolutely are, and that's all anyone here has claimed.
You really need to catch up on the thread.
So your condemnation, if honest, can only rely on the "mentally ill" part. Which is then hypocritical.
See, this is what I mean: look at the lengths you just went to to fabricate a different explanation than the stated and obvious one. I said they were full of ◊◊◊◊. You did a contorted dance to reword that as mentally ill.

And that's why we are past post #14,000 on part 15 of this thread.
 
What are the odds that two of his daughters are randomly trans?
That depends on whether we believe it's an inborn trait like sexual orientation or (somewhat less controversially) asparagus anosmia. I think most people (even skeptics and other science fans) sort of assume without much reflection that trans identity is invariably a deep-rooted "born this way" sort of thing rather than something socially layered upon gender non-conforming behavior, which crops up everywhere and everywhen.
You're trying to sneak in the assertion that groups lobbying specifically against damaging medical experimentation being performed on children are "anti-trans".
No, I am trying to distinguish between groups lobbying against all things transgender and groups lobbying against youth gender medicine in particular. My working hypothesis is that there are actually rather few of the latter who are not acting as catspaws for the former, but I'm open to reevaluating it.
The distinction here is that regardless of whether they're completely cognitively mature, an 18 year old is a legal adult, who has the legal right to enter into contracts and to provide unqualified consent to such treatment.
Sometimes courts grant extraordinary powers of consent to medical treatment to people under the age of legal majority because of exigent circumstances, for example, 15-y.o. girls hoping to receive help continuing or terminating their pregnancy against parental advice.
And I'll tell what's boring... watching you continually flip-flop your position; making pathetic attempt after pathetic attempt to gaslight everyone about what you have said previously, while claiming to be some ultra-nuanced gender crit, when its obvious to anyone who reads the bull-◊◊◊◊ you post here that you are in fact a card-carrying trans activist.
What is worse than boring to me is when people on discussion boards take time out from addressing arguments to characterize the people making the arguments. This isn't a team sport where people have to swap out jerseys to indicate home or away, this is a discussion ranging across disparate issues and it is okay to play both sides in order to test the strength of arguments applied to each one. By using social pressure to force people to wear one jersey or another, you are unduly limiting the universe of possible discussion. That approach makes sense in a parliamentary setting or even a tribal council but this is not a decision-making body.
 
What is worse than boring to me is when people on discussion boards take time out from addressing arguments to characterize the people making the arguments. This isn't a team sport where people have to swap out jerseys to indicate home or away, this is a discussion ranging across disparate issues and it is okay to play both sides in order to test the strength of arguments applied to each one. By using social pressure to force people to wear one jersey or another, you are unduly limiting the universe of possible discussion. That approach makes sense in a parliamentary setting or even a tribal council but this is not a decision-making body.
Hear, hear. I've been doing this too, and kinda hate myself for it.
 
We have a working definition, slippery though it is. It's your internal sense of self, in terms of being a man or woman. That suffices for social interaction, and differentiates enough from being a butch gal or a girly guy.

For public policy, though, it doesn't suffice. It gets interchanged with bio sex too capriciously. So for policy purposes, we need a more hard lined distinction. I think the hard line distinction will end up meaning 'it don't matter what you think of yourself as in the showers, but it do matter as the basis for interpersonal hate crimes.
 
Yeah, someone might have mentioned getting clarification on what the ◊◊◊◊ it actually means for a year or so, right in this very tread.
You also mentioned getting clarification on what "woman" meant, and then when provided such clarification, you basically rejected it as extremist. The fact that you ask for clarification doesn't mean you actually want it. Nor is it even necessary for anyone else to clarify what you mean by the words you use. Only you can do that.
I've been using the one that TRAs provided: your internal sense of self.
OK, we finally have a definition from you. It's somewhat lacking as stated, since for example it probably should specify only a subset of their sense of self. How tall they feel they are, how smart they feel they are, many qualities of a person's sense of self should not be included in gender. But let's set that aside, and assume that we're only talking about their self of self in regards to sex and sex-related properties. My point isn't actually to quibble about what is or is not included within "gender".

But the fact that it's not all-inclusive is relevant, because we know for certain that some aspects of your sense of self can and do change (as they should, since people can and do change). Given that fact, on what basis do you conclude that the aspects of self included within gender do NOT change? Do you have evidence for this? Do you have any logical argument for this? Because you seem to be pulling this out of your ass, and I don't know where it comes from.
Right. What gender actually *is* precludes anyone from being nonbinary or gender fluid. Option Ocelot does not exist.
What gender is, according to you, is just one's internal sense of self (or presumably a subset of this). But why can't this be nonbinary? Why can't it be gender fluid? Why can't it be Ocelot? I understand why you can't actually be a non-binary sex (or an actual ocelot), but gender isn't sex. What prevents you from being nonbinary gender, if gender is just an internal sense of self?
 
We have a working definition, slippery though it is. It's your internal sense of self, in terms of being a man or woman. That suffices for social interaction, and differentiates enough from being a butch gal or a girly guy.
If that definition sufficed for social interaction, there'd be no call for preferred pronouns. An internal sense can't suffice for social interaction, because nobody else can perceive your internal senses. In order to interact with others in society, you need to account for how they perceive you. Traditionally, this was done by making a noticeable effort to "pass" as the opposite gender. But this was back when gender was synonymous with sex, and society's gendered expectations about dress and behavior were much more rigid and well-defined.

In modern times, it's done by aping traditional gendered dress, and by outright demanding (announcing preferred pronouns, etc.) that people behave as though they perceive you as the opposite sex.

All of which is effectively meaningless anyway, since in modern times there is no overt nor expected difference in the way we interact socially with each gender. We still treat the sexes differently in some cases, but gender decoupled from sex is functionally meaningless for social interaction. For example, people don't flirt based on the other person's internal sense of gender. They do it based on their own perception of the other's biological sex.

A much more realistic definition, which does not rely on invisible internal senses, and which is decidedly un-slippery, and which has practical applications beyond social interaction, is "adult human female". The only slipperiness to it, which baffles alien space robots but is immediately accessible to beings that communicate via natural languages, is that in some contexts the definition encompasses all human females, not just the adults (e.g., women's restrooms).

For public policy, though, it doesn't suffice. It gets interchanged with bio sex too capriciously.
Nothing capricious about it. Gender and sex have always been interlinked concepts in our society. Gender decoupled from sex has no practical applications. Your actual complaint, based on your recent arguments is that we're not capricious enough in decoupling gender from sex (e.g., again, women's restrooms; the sex-based definition, applied consistently, handles this case just fine, but you want to capriciously be inconsistent in this one case).

So for policy purposes, we need a more hard lined distinction. I think the hard line distinction will end up meaning 'it don't matter what you think of yourself as in the showers, but it do matter as the basis for interpersonal hate crimes.
We already have a hard line distinction: Adult human female. According to this definition, it doesn't matter what you think of yourself as in the showers, but it does matter that you're showering in the sex-segregated facility appropriate to your sex.

As for policy: We already have very clear policy that you cannot treat someone differently in housing, employment, etc. because of their outward gender presentation.

And note that this definition does not assail the dignity of trans-identified people. It makes no reference to, nor cares one whit about, allegations of mental illness or perversion. This entire discussion can be had - has been had, several times - dispassionately, respecting all internal senses and outward presentations, honoring the entire spectrum of human expression.
 
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We have a working definition, slippery though it is. It's your internal sense of self, in terms of being a man or woman.
What if you don't feel that you are either? What if you feel that you are both?

Is it your claim that one cannot feel this way, that it's somehow impossible? On what basis do you make that claim?
 

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