Is it your position is that housing discrimination against trans people should be legal? If not, then you've already conceded that this isn't the way to help trans people.
The collective opinion of everyone here is that nobody at all should be discriminated against in housing, education, and employment on the basis of their sex, religion, ethnicity, etc. with a very, very few specific instances. Disallowing a male from having a home based solely on the fact that they like to wear dresses and make-up would constitute sex discrimination and thus, not a single one of us supports that.
Reasonable exceptions would be things like a single-sex temporary housing facility that disallows males irrespective of how they present, or a senior living community that disallows children as permanent residents.
Most people aren't interested in inter-racial romantic partnerships, either. It has no bearing on how we treat people of different races generally.
This sounds rather like your own racial issues coming through. I don't know anyone in my personal life who would avoid a romantic partnership just because the other person has a different degree of melanin content.
This concern would be more plausible coming from people who weren't opposed to the movement in the first place.
What exactly do you think we're opposed to, and what do you think the objectives of "the movement" are?
I have no opposition to people being able to dress and express themselves however they please. I think males should be able to wear frilly lacy things, spinny skirts, and make-up to their heart's content, just as females should be able to wear dungarees and flannel shirts and short hair and steel-toed boots.
I started out far, far more supportive than I am now - I wasn't opposed to any of it "in the first place". It's been exposure to the movement, and the blatant overreach and disregard for the safety and dignity of females that has led to my taking a very firm stance against males invading female single-sex intimate spaces.
Do you think males should be placed in female prisons? Use the female side of the nude spa? Strip down and expose their penis and testicles in the female shower? Compete against females?