Transwomen are not Women - Part 15

"You can just kick the sex criminal out". The innocence is touching in this thread.
It's worked that way, and well, for about a hundred years. The only thing that's changed, recently, is a push in some jurisdictions to remove the social and legal protections for doing it that way. Restore those protections, and I see no reason why it shouldn't continue to work that way.

The only people who say doing it that way won't work are the people trying to remove the social and legal protections for doing it that way impose social and legal sanctions for doing it that way.
 
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It's worked that way, and well, for about a hundred years. The only thing that's changed, recently, is a push in some jurisdictions to remove the social and legal protections for doing it that way. Restore those protections, and I see no reason why it shouldn't continue to work that way.

The only people who say doing it that way won't work are the people trying to remove the social and legal protections for doing it that way impose social and legal sanctions for doing it that way.
I agree that restoring to the old school system is best on net. No force of law in either direction, and let the people sort out for themselves who is disruptive enough to constitute a disorderly person. Maybe once in a while, you'll have a legitimate case of hate-based harassment against a transwoman, and that can be hashed out in court with appropriate penalties. More often than not, I would expect the women to prevail.

But I stand firm on not recommending initiating a confronatation with someone you believe to be dangerous unless you are ready to fight your way out of it. They are called criminals because they don't play fair by nature.
 
Not sure how you made the jump from gender identity and expression to sex?
Because they are "related ideas and definitionally intertwined" as someone once wrote.
I'd say something more along the lines of 'intended for use by both sexes'.
Do you disagree with the statement that women's bathrooms in NJ are 'intended for use by both sexes' per the law quoted above?
...it could be argued that a typical women's rest room is suitable for both sexes, hence unisex by your interpretation?
If you do care to make that argument, see if you can work in a key detail: In some jurisdictions, certain spaces are designated single-sex, which makes them unsuitable for the other sex as a matter of policy. In other jurisdictions (e.g. CA, NJ, NY) such designations are legally forbidden, making those spaces suitable for both sexes.
Seems to me the defining feature is that both sexes should be expected to using the amenity.
I expect both sexes to be using toilets and locker rooms in New Jersey, per the law quoted above.

Am I mistaken in this expectation?
 
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Because they are "related ideas and definitionally intertwined" as someone once wrote.
Someone also wrote, in the same context, that often interchangeable does not mean always interchangeable. I remain shocked at how often that distinction is met by blank stares in this discussion.
Do you disagree with the statement that women's bathrooms in NJ are 'intended for use by both sexes' per the law quoted above?
Yes. Per the law, they explicitly are not.

{eta: where are the urinals in the women's room? Where are the sanitary napkins in the men's? They are intended for use by one specific sex. They are loosely suitable for either}
If you do care to make that argument, see if you can work in a key detail: In some jurisdictions, certain spaces are designated single-sex, which makes them unsuitable for the other sex as a matter of policy. In other jurisdictions (e.g. CA, NJ, NY) such designations are legally forbidden, making those spaces suitable for both sexes.
Possibly overly pedantic, but 'unsuitable' is a different idea than 'not designated'.
I expect both sexes to be using toilets and locker rooms in New Jersey, per the law quoted above.

Am I mistaken in this expectation?
Assuming you mean using nominally single sex designated toilets and locker rooms, I expect they are as well. {eta: with the caveat that well over 99% of the time, they are de facto single sex and some might well remain single sex 100% of the time}. Yet it is not based on them being designated as unisex and recognized as such. It is based on gender, defined by the state as unique from sex, being capriciously equated with sex. Sometimes. With no rhyme or reason or consistency.
 
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Misty Hill is male. In New Jersey, per the law, which bathrooms is he intended to use?
Answered in depth and detail in the part of the post you took the extra time to snip out.

eta: restrooms were almost certainly designed for their declared sex. The idea of gender being equivalent to sex has created a weird exception to that intention that we are still fumbling around with, hence this thread.
 
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Answered in depth and detail in the part of the post you took the extra time to snip out.
The rest of your post seems to be strange semantic quibbles which do not actually answer my question. It's strange that you can't just say "Mens" or "Womens".
 
The rest of your post seems to be strange semantic quibbles which do not actually answer my question. It's strange that you can't just say "Mens" or "Womens".
See the eta. Ya ninja'd me.

Eta: if you want a more direct but less clear answer, Hill was intended to use the men's room, as I assume he was born a male and the facility predates his later identification. the restroom was almost certainly not designed or designated with Misty Hill's intended usage in mind.
 
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See the eta. Ya ninja'd me.

Eta: if you want a more direct but less clear answer, Hill was intended to use the men's room
Perhaps you're playing games with verb tense, but according to New Jersey law in the present (not the past) Hill is intended to use the women's bathroom, as he identifies as a woman.
the restroom was almost certainly not designed or designated with Misty Hill's intended usage in mind.
Oh, but we aren't talking about the original design or the original designation, which may have happened long ago. We're talking about the law as of now. And the law in New Jersey right now intends Hill to use the women's bathroom.
 
Perhaps you're playing games with verb tense, but according to New Jersey law in the present (not the past) Hill is intended to use the women's bathroom, as he identifies as a woman.

Oh, but we aren't talking about the original design or the original designation, which may have happened long ago. We're talking about the law as of now. And the law in New Jersey right now intends Hill to use the women's bathroom.
I don't see how the law 'intends' anything at all of Misty Hill's specific restroom usage. Are you under the impression that he couldn't use a men's room or unisex facility? Does the law furrow its brow and codify itself with its 'intentions' towards our guest from Delaware?
 
I don't see how the law 'intends' anything at all of Misty Hill's specific restroom usage.
The law intends for Hill to use the women's bathroom, because he identifies as a woman. This is not an accidental outcome, it's not some side effect or loophole, it is the desired outcome. That is what the legislators who passed the law wanted to happen as a result of the law. So we can absolutely say what the law intends in this instance.
Are you under the impression that he couldn't use a men's room or unisex facility?
Oh, he absolutely could, so long as he identifies as a man while doing so. That too is an intended outcome.
 
The law intends for Hill to use the women's bathroom, because he identifies as a woman. This is not an accidental outcome, it's not some side effect or loophole, it is the desired outcome. That is what the legislators who passed the law wanted to happen as a result of the law. So we can absolutely say what the law intends in this instance.

Oh, he absolutely could, so long as he identifies as a man while doing so. That too is an intended outcome.
Then the law has no intent regarding Misty Hill. It has a general intent that Hill may or may not fit the intention of, assuming Hill has even entered the State in the last 8 years. In fact, if one cannot discriminate based on gender identity/expression, I challenge you to demonstrate how any woman or transwoman or the annoying nonbinary folk could be denied access to any restroom.
 
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Then the law has no intent regarding Misty Hill.
That makes no sense.
In fact, if one cannot discriminate based on gender identity/expression, I challenge you to demonstrate how any woman or transwoman or the annoying nonbinary folk could be denied access to any restroom.
Discriminate based on sex, which is a solution that you specifically advocated. It's really not that hard. As has been beaten to death many times, one's gender identity and expression is not one's sex, so discriminating on the basis of sex IS NOT discriminating on the basis of gender identity or expression. Sure, some people can pass as the opposite sex, and you won't keep them out. But most cannot. Hill cannot. The ones who cannot pass as the opposite sex will be kept out if you discriminate on the basis of sex. That's how you keep Hill out of the women's bathroom.
 
If you begin with bathrooms that are sex-segregated, only biological males are entitled to use the men's, and only biological females are entitled to use the women's.

If you now pass a law that allows access according a persons self-declared gender identity, then you are now allowing transgender identified biological males who self declare as women to use the women's, and transgender identified biological females who self-declare as men to use the men's.

That law has removed the sex -segregated status of those bathrooms because any members of either sex can use either bathroom. Any bathrooms that are not sex-segrated are, by default, available to either sex, therefore, they are now unisex. You might be able to make up a nitpicketty argument that actual unisex bathrooms have some kind of specialized construction features, but in every way that matters, any way you slice it, for all intents and purposes, they are functionally indistinguishable from unisex bathrooms.
 
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That makes no sense.
It makes less sense to assume the law has intent towards a specific individual. The law has intent towards collectives in this sense.
Discriminate based on sex, which is a solution that you specifically advocated.
We have that, yet gender has wormed its way in to be the functional equivalent, which if you recall, I have also advocated getting more hard line defined in order to stop the vascillations of convenience.
 
Who said anything about that? Not me.
Um...
Misty Hill is male. In New Jersey, per the law, which bathrooms is he intended to use?
Whether someone is male or not has little to do with the law at hand, and you further have some strong assumptions about some cat who hasn't even entered the state for 8 years, as far as I know. Is Hill's identification the same? Are you guys pen pals or something? Cuz I don't know enough to answer any questions regarding his internal.or even external workings today. Could have died years ago, for all I know.
Yes. And Hill is a member of the group to whom the law is addressed.
Which one? Are you sure? To the point: would it even matter, if we cant discriminate at all? 'At all' means in any direction, including cis folk entering the opposite sex room.

I'm asking because you seem to be arguing both ways, both having discrimination and not having it. Could you at least clarify the side of your mouth you are arguing from?

Not in New Jersey, not anymore.
 
Yes, the law has intent towards Hill because Hill is a member of a group. I never claimed that it had singled Hill out individually. That would be a stupid interpretation of what I wrote.
Whether someone is male or not has little to do with the law at hand
Quite so. That's rather my point. Because sex is irrelevant, bathrooms in New Jersey are de jure unisex.
I'm asking because you seem to be arguing both ways, both having discrimination and not having it. Could you at least clarify the side of your mouth you are arguing from?
I don't know why you're confused about this, it's pretty simple. The current status of the law in New Jersey is that you cannot discriminate on the basis of sex. That is how things are, it is NOT how I want them to be. I want to be able to discriminate on the basis of sex. That is how things should be, not how they currently are in New Jersey. I'm not trying to have it both ways, I'm pointing out that how things are doesn't match how they should (and could) be.
 
Yes, the law has intent towards Hill because Hill is a member of a group. I never claimed that it had singled Hill out individually. That would be a stupid interpretation of what I wrote.
You yet again snipped out the relevant part. Why bring up Hill specifically when we don't know anything about them in the here and now?
Quite so. That's rather my point. Because sex is irrelevant, bathrooms in New Jersey are de jure unisex.
Bathrooms in places of public accommodation are in fact required to be specifically labeled, and seperate sexed facilities are required by all employers who have multi stall restrooms.

They are both de jure and de facto segregated, unless signage is placed indicating a gender neutral facility.
I don't know why you're confused about this, it's pretty simple.
"You are confused".
The current status of the law in New Jersey is that you cannot discriminate on the basis of sex. That is how things are, it is NOT how I want them to be. I want to be able to discriminate on the basis of sex. That is how things should be, not how they currently are in New Jersey. I'm not trying to have it both ways, I'm pointing out that how things are doesn't match how they should (and could) be.
Ok. Say we go all Ziggaraut and sex segregated this afternoon (we already are but let's humor you). How would that stop your pen pal Misty Hill from asserting gender discrimination if denied access to the ladies loo?

The problem is, and remains, lack of definitional clarity on the reach of gender affirmation. We don't need sex segregation; we have it. Gender can waltz right by it. Yet I get a lot of push back over this.
 

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