This exactly.See, there's the thing, folks on both sides of this issue make it hard to be on there side.
Side 1. You must accept that transwomen are women.
Side 2. You can't even say they are transwomen.
The allowed positions are apparently either:
"Trans women are not (and should not be treated as) women in any context."
or
"Trans women are (and should be treated as) women in every context."
Expressing a position such as:
"Trans women should be treated as women in some contexts, but not others."
Tends to attract attacks from both sides.

. Saying there are "trans people" is like saying there are people with misaligned chakras or people who've been abducted by aliens. They only "exist" in the way that other imaginary states exist.