Not at all, I just name the emotion involved. Gays should be kept separate because they make some straights uncomfortable and afraid, just like trans people. It is the exact same principles you advocated, just not hiding behind vague things like your refusal to identify transphobia when it shows up.
Just like how being against gay marriage is not a homophobic position in the view of many. Like you they are wrong.
Based on your previous posts in this thread, being opposed to gay marriage is functionally equivalent to being a NAZI?