No, not according to the basic tenets of gender identity theory and intersectional social justice. If someone claims they are (or merely ought to be or ought to have been) female, we are morally obligated to treat them as female, even if everything about their appearance and demeanor makes that approach feel counterintuitive to the over 20s who weren't weaned on these ideas.
Is this you talking or are someone else's words coming out of your mouth?
Because that's not just functionally insane, it's completely untenable on any practical level.
If that's the standard, then what point does "sex" as a concept even serve anymore?