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Cont: Transwomen are not women - part 13

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I'm sorry you feel that way. I don't hold my own persuasive powers in high esteem either.

And now you're gonna to do the shrinking violet routine.

No. You don't get to wander around the discussion 100% sure of your own moral high ground so that everyone who disagrees with you is a Terf and then pull this kind of milquetoast passive crap.

The fact that you've wasting on your energy on the facade of a moral high ground but never bothered to take the time to make an intellectual foundation to build it on is not our fault and doesn't make you the victim.

Reasonable, honest questions that YOU admit you can't answer have been presented. Answer them or drop the ******* attitude.
 
And now you're gonna to do the shrinking violet routine.

No. You don't get to wander around the discussion 100% sure of your own moral high ground so that everyone who disagrees with you is a Terf and then pull this kind of milquetoast passive crap.

The fact that you've wasting on your energy on the facade of a moral high ground but never bothered to take the time to make an intellectual foundation to build it on is not our fault and doesn't make you the victim.

Reasonable, honest questions that YOU admit you can't answer have been presented. Answer them or drop the ******* attitude.

I don't think it's contradictory to condemn anti-trans bigots in the sternest possible terms while also admitting that I am not the best and most coherent explainer of the entire trans "controversy".

I'm a spectator as much as you are.
 
We can, but we don't. Society has decided gender is something that is very important whether individuals like it or not. Trans people have to live in the world that exists now, not the post gender utopia of the future.

Is it your view that gender is not something that is socially coded with huge practical implications?

An obvious example of this is race. Race pretty much doesn't exist in any objective sense, it's entirely socially imagined. That doesn't make it any less "real". It's real because society has made it real.

The highlighted can also be written with the word "sex" instead of "gender."

Other than the sub-topic of medical transition at various ages (for which, I will note, there are varying opinions within the trans-community) this discussion mostly seems to be about how various segregated things are segregated.

So society has previously decided that certain things (bathrooms, locker rooms, sports, etc.) should be segregated by sex, because society has decided that sex is important in these cases.

Now, I get that one might have the opinion that sex shouldn't be important in these situations and argue against segregation by sex. But arguments against sex segregation are not arguments for gender segregation. They are two different arguments.

To replace sex segregation with gender segregation takes two arguments:
  1. A reason why the item should not be segregated by sex.
  2. A separate reason why the item should be segregated by gender.

I have never seen both points addressed to support proposed changes.
 
I don't think it's contradictory to condemn anti-trans bigots in the sternest possible terms while also admitting that I am not the best and most coherent explainer of the entire trans "controversy".

I'm a spectator as much as you are.

At this point you're just saying "Trans people told me they were right and to call everyone who disagrees with them a TERF so that's what I'm doing but don't ask me to explain it."

You've been on the field an awful lot for a mere spectator.

Don't NOBODY believe this for a second.

So what now after literal years of you doing the whole "I speak for the Trans and if you disagree you're a TERF" routine we get a glib little "LOL I don't know what I'm talking about don't ask me LOL" routine?

So you've wasted THIS much emotional energy hating people over something you're now gonna pretend you don't understand?

No. Not buying it. I'm legit insulted you think so little of me you thought I would buy it. That's Trumper level obtuseness.
 
At this point you're just saying "Trans people told me they were right and to call everyone who disagrees with them a TERF so that's what I'm doing but don't ask me to explain it."

Now you're being unfair. TERFS are only a small subsection of anti-trans bigots and you know this. Outside TERF-island I don't even see them being particularly well represented in the issue. It's a british thing.

You've been on the field an awful lot for a mere spectator.

Well, someone should disrupt the anti-trans circle jerk. Or not. Not much point either way.


So what now after literal years of you doing the whole "I speak for the Trans and if you disagree you're a TERF" routine we get a glib little "LOL I don't know what I'm talking about don't ask me LOL" routine?

I speak for myself. I've never represented myself as anything more than that. It's a shame that very few members of this forum have any desire to engage with this cursed thread, but I fully understand why they don't. Perhaps they are right, absent good moderation of this website, quarantining all the anti-trans freaks into a single thread seems like the least-bad option.

So you've wasted THIS much emotional energy hating people over something you're now gonna pretend you don't understand?

No. Not buying it. I'm legit insulted you think so little of me you thought I would buy it. That's Trumper level obtuseness.

I specifically don't understand what the hell you are saying. The rest of the people on this thread I understand more or less quite well.

I really hope this thread isn't your entire view of the issue. Even in the context of a dying forum, this thread is an especially non-representative sampling of the voices in the larger "debate". Anyone who isn't a frothing at the mouth transphobe or a glutton for punishment has wisely written this part of the forum off as an exclusion zone, and rightly resents when the resident TERFs and assorted bigots escape their little play pen.
 
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I really hope this thread isn't your entire view of the issue. Even in the context of a dying forum, this thread is an especially non-representative sampling of the voices in the larger "debate". Anyone who isn't a frothing at the mouth transphobe or a glutton for punishment has wisely written this part of the forum off as an exclusion zone, and rightly resents when the resident TERFs and assorted bigots escape their little play pen.

When the 9-11 Truthers started threads in the CT section did everybody here just ignore them? No, they confronted them with facts and reasoned arguments to prove them wrong. But you're right that this thread seems to have become a no-go zone for a substantial percentage of the forum, and it's pretty obvious why: all the facts and reasoned arguments are on the other side, and your side is left with "transphobe and TERF" ad-homs as substitutes.
 
I don't think it's contradictory to condemn anti-trans bigots in the sternest possible terms

Who exactly are the "anti-trans bigots" and what makes them bigoted?

It's a shame that very few members of this forum have any desire to engage with this cursed thread, but I fully understand why they don't. Perhaps they are right, absent good moderation of this website, quarantining all the anti-trans freaks into a single thread seems like the least-bad option.

Ah. I see.

Anyone who doesn't toe the TRA line is an "anti-trans bigot" or "anti-trans freak".

I specifically don't understand what the hell you are saying.

But you're probably sure it's transphobic.
 
I really hope this thread isn't your entire view of the issue. Even in the context of a dying forum, this thread is an especially non-representative sampling of the voices in the larger "debate". Anyone who isn't a frothing at the mouth transphobe or a glutton for punishment has wisely written this part of the forum off as an exclusion zone, and rightly resents when the resident TERFs and assorted bigots escape their little play pen.

Cop out.
 
This thread is a cess pit of two points of view talking over each other. It's effectively dead.

Which wouldn't be a problem except we've been told this is the next great civil rights battle that HISTORY WILL JUDGE US FOR *Points finger accusingly*

Again nobody here is wrong for actually want a resolution to this.
 
I trust you are aware that other forum members who might have a perspective you would find interesting avoid this thread for the fairly obvious reasons.

That the science isn't on their side - trans rights is where liberal scepticism comes to die
 
Which wouldn't be a problem except we've been told this is the next great civil rights battle that HISTORY WILL JUDGE US FOR *Points finger accusingly*

Again nobody here is wrong for actually want a resolution to this.

I'm curious, do you see anything wrong with the Canadian "resolution"? The anti-trans doomsayers never seem to want to talk about how self-ID seems to be going fine there. It's been years now, surely any problems would have arisen by now.
 
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I'm curious, do you see anything wrong with the Canadian "resolution"? The anti-trans doomsayers never seem to want to talk about how self-ID seems to be going fine there. It's been years now, surely any problems would have arisen by now.

"Well it worked in other countries, ergo will work in American" would solve like 99% of our problem if it where actually true.

I don't really care about a trans solution because as I have stated many times an have been super clear about I don't there's a trans problem. It's all semantics and categorization and the Gordian Knot can be cut by just not caring about a ton of old cultural baggage and like a minimal amount of base human decency.

And no the fact that the rest of society still has a bunch of stupid nonsense gender roles doesn't mean me not using doesn't solve the problem for myself. I'm not here to fix the world I'm just trying to live in it.

Yes a lot of people think the people with vaginas should be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen birthing the babies and making the men folk a sammich and that's dumb, obvs. A person with a penis declaring himself a woman doesn't fix that or address or break down the stereotype. This idea that the best way to fix dumb rules is to make dumb exceptions to the rules as a "take that" is dumb.

Thread nannies keep popping their head in hear to tell us we're talking around each other and the leaving and that's because, again as I said many times, we've have one side saying we have 5 fingers and one side saying we have 4 fingers and thumb and we keep pretending the solution is to stop the discussion yet again, and restart it at the "Okay everybody count your fingers again" stage and we keep acting shocked that we keep getting different answers even though we all the problem is the definition of "finger" and there's actual debate here about how many digits are actually on a hand.

The two "sides" as it where are using different definitions of what a "woman" is, citation THE TITLE OF THE THREAD and all that which wouldn't be an issue if both sides could argue the point instead of trying to define themselves as correct by looking at their thumbs and declaring it a finger or not over and over and over and over and over.

A while back I proposed the impossible trifecta and I think that stills holds as the core disagreement. We have 3 standards, only 3 of them can be functionally and reasonably in effect at any one time. And to adhere to my own standards the argument can be made without using categorization arguments i.e. I am correct because I define a term in a way that makes me correct.

1. In public spaces the penised people have to be kept separate from the vaginaed (vagined? vaginied? Whatever) people for the safety, comfort, privacy, mental well being, or similar concept of the people with vaginas. This is the classic standard of separation of the sexes.

2. A person genital structure and other biological attributes no longer determines their sex. This is transgenderism as a concept.

3. Society cannot force/coerce people to dress, act, present, "code", or otherwise do, look, act, or display a certain way based on their genitals. This is rejection of traditional of gender roles, i.e "men do this, women do that."

If we reject 1, we're rape enablers. If we reject 2, we're transphobes. If we reject 3 we're putting stereotypes on the genders to act a certain way.

We have to keep the penises and the vaginas separate, but we can't like separate via gender because either we take everything on the honor system which is pointless or we set literal or metaphorical genital checks at the door and we all agree that's just horrible.
 
"Well it worked in other countries, ergo will work in American" would solve like 99% of our problem if it where actually true.

I don't really care about a trans solution because as I have stated many times an have been super clear about I don't there's a trans problem. It's all semantics and categorization and the Gordian Knot can be cut by just not caring about a ton of old cultural baggage and like a minimal amount of base human decency.

And no the fact that the rest of society still has a bunch of stupid nonsense gender roles doesn't mean me not using doesn't solve the problem for myself. I'm not here to fix the world I'm just trying to live in it.

Yes a lot of people think the people with vaginas should be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen birthing the babies and making the men folk a sammich and that's dumb, obvs. A person with a penis declaring himself a woman doesn't fix that or address or break down the stereotype. This idea that the best way to fix dumb rules is to make dumb exceptions to the rules as a "take that" is dumb.

Thread nannies keep popping their head in hear to tell us we're talking around each other and the leaving and that's because, again as I said many times, we've have one side saying we have 5 fingers and one side saying we have 4 fingers and thumb and we keep pretending the solution is to stop the discussion yet again, and restart it at the "Okay everybody count your fingers again" stage and we keep acting shocked that we keep getting different answers even though we all the problem is the definition of "finger" and there's actual debate here about how many digits are actually on a hand.

The two "sides" as it where are using different definitions of what a "woman" is, citation THE TITLE OF THE THREAD and all that which wouldn't be an issue if both sides could argue the point instead of trying to define themselves as correct by looking at their thumbs and declaring it a finger or not over and over and over and over and over.

A while back I proposed the impossible trifecta and I think that stills holds as the core disagreement. We have 3 standards, only 3 of them can be functionally and reasonably in effect at any one time. And to adhere to my own standards the argument can be made without using categorization arguments i.e. I am correct because I define a term in a way that makes me correct.

1. In public spaces the penised people have to be kept separate from the vaginaed (vagined? vaginied? Whatever) people for the safety, comfort, privacy, mental well being, or similar concept of the people with vaginas. This is the classic standard of separation of the sexes.

2. A person genital structure and other biological attributes no longer determines their sex. This is transgenderism as a concept.

3. Society cannot force/coerce people to dress, act, present, "code", or otherwise do, look, act, or display a certain way based on their genitals. This is rejection of traditional of gender roles, i.e "men do this, women do that."

If we reject 1, we're rape enablers. If we reject 2, we're transphobes. If we reject 3 we're putting stereotypes on the genders to act a certain way.

We have to keep the penises and the vaginas separate, but we can't like separate via gender because either we take everything on the honor system which is pointless or we set literal or metaphorical genital checks at the door and we all agree that's just horrible.

Has this been demonstrated anywhere or are you taking that on faith? There are countries that have self-id or something close enough to that. Is there some plague of gender fakers in these countries?
 
Has this been demonstrated anywhere or are you taking that on faith? There are countries that have self-id or something close enough to that. Is there some plague of gender fakers in these countries?

I don't care. I've made very clear I resent on a deep level this idea that I'm a dangerous predator because I have a penis but all someone has to do is go "Oh you see I'm a female and this is my lady penis, therefor it's not a threat."

This is what I mean when I say sometimes the transgender talk almost gets to the point where it makes sense if we're trying to just define "rapist" (or less confrontationally just "Not being a stereotypical macho douchebag") as a gender or some weird coded way for men to go "Okay I'm a guy but not like a guy-guy, ya know what I'm saying? I'm one of the good ones and you can let your guard down around me." Or at the very least some kind of stupid "Straight cis men and everybody else" dichotomy like the stupid term "Person of Color" which takes countless varied ethnic and racial minorities and lumps them together as "LOL well they ain't whitey so they all on the same team" which is pandering and stupid.

Like either possessing a penis carries some sexual violence original sin or it doesn't. I reject the proxy argument that a penis attached to a cis-man and a penis attached to a transwoman have different threat vectors and I always have. And yes that IS exactly the argument we're having some times and if you don't think that argument is absurd I honestly don't know what to tell you at this point.

To put it in transgender terms if don't care if you're a man or a woman if you possess a penis you carry the original sin of having one so you get stay in the "potential rapist" penalty box with the rest of us. You ain't special.

You don't get to demand a special safe space with no penises but then go "those penises don't count because they are special." A transwoman is allowed to get offended that their penis isn't allowed into a specific bathroom exactly as much as I am.
 
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There's plenty of well reasoned and well articulated writing on the subject. It's complicated, but not impenetrable. It's out there if you are really curious, Judith Butler's work is generally well regarded.
Oof. Butler won first prize in the bad writing contest from the academic journal Philosophy and Literature for this:
The move from a structuralist account in which capital is understood to structure social relations in relatively homologous ways to a view of hegemony in which power relations are subject to repetition, convergence, and rearticulation brought the question of temporality into the thinking of structure, and marked a shift from a form of Althusserian theory that takes structural totalities as theoretical objects to one in which the insights into the contingent possibility of structure inaugurate a renewed conception of hegemony as bound up with the contingent sites and strategies of the rearticulation of power.
Source

In Butler's defense, the award is given for bad style, not bad content, and it is possible to parse that sentence above, although you'd still be left with all the questions. If her writing on transgenderism is as convoluted as the sentence above, I'll pass.
 
I don't care. I've made very clear I resent on a deep level this idea that I'm a dangerous predator because I have a penis but all someone has to do is go "Oh you see I'm a female and this is my lady penis, therefor it's not a threat."

This is what I mean when I say sometimes the transgender talk almost gets to the point where it makes sense if we're trying to just define "rapist" (or less confrontationally just "Not being a stereotypical macho douchebag") as a gender or some weird coded way for men to go "Okay I'm a guy but not like a guy-guy, ya know what I'm saying? I'm one of the good ones and you can let your guard down around me." Or at the very least some kind of stupid "Straight cis men and everybody else" dichotomy like the stupid term "Person of Color" which takes countless varied ethnic and racial minorities and lumps them together as "LOL well they ain't whitey so they all on the same team" which is pandering and stupid.

Like either possessing a penis carries some sexual violence original sin or it doesn't. I reject the proxy argument that a penis attached to a cis-man and a penis attached to a transwoman have different threat vectors and I always have. And yes that IS exactly the argument we're having some times and if you don't think that argument is absurd I honestly don't know what to tell you at this point.

To put it in transgender terms if don't care if you're a man or a woman if you possess a penis you carry the original sin of having one so you get stay in the "potential rapist" penalty box with the rest of us. You ain't special.

You don't get to demand a special safe space with no penises but then go "those penises don't count because they are special." A transwoman is allowed to get offended that their penis isn't allowed into a specific bathroom exactly as much as I am.

Ok, but do you not find the privacy concerns for trans people at all compelling?

Sex segregation basically requires trans people to out themselves as trans any time they enter a segregated space. A masculine looking trans man entering a women's restroom, because the law demands it, is basically going to be thrust into the position of having to explain this intimate private fact about themselves to reasonably alarmed strangers quite frequently. Or they can just risk using the men's room and hope (perhaps correctly) that nobody is going to take notice of another dude looking person going into a bathroom stall and going about their business.

There's a very practical question here. Facing a sex segregated space, what should a trans person do?
 
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I'm curious, do you see anything wrong with the Canadian "resolution"? The anti-trans doomsayers never seem to want to talk about how self-ID seems to be going fine there. It's been years now, surely any problems would have arisen by now.

https://katv.com/news/nation-world/...-riley-gaines-justin-trudeau-april-hutchinson

The TRA's don't consider this a problem at all. But you don't need to be a transphobe to think it is.

But maybe you don't care about sports. Do you care about prisons?

https://macdonaldlaurier.ca/rights-...cation-policy-places-women-at-risk-in-prison/

This issue is frequently ignored as well. The risk to female prisoners from male prisoners is an issue for lower class women, not upper class women let alone men. Nevertheless, it is real.
 
Why only sex/gender? Why does literally no other objective, real world biological variable demand accomodation for an internal sense of self?
Gender isn't an objectively observable variable like sex, it is an entirely subjective sense of oneself which can only be ascertained after learning the language and culture of the individual in question. If the individual is in a coma, you cannot know their gender.
 
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