I see. And what are trans women expected to do?
The same thing literally everyone is expected to do in a society with other people in it, sometimes wind up in situations that aren't 100% comfortable for or tailored to them and just live with it.
And before you hit the "You're a transphobe and history will judge you" shortcut key on your keyboard actually stop and think about what you are saying, read what I'm actually saying, and actually respond to it.
You're treating transpeople going to the bathroom they are comfortable in as some sort of 100% guaranteed human right, but cis-women being uncomfortable with trans-people as something they obviously have to get over.
WHICH IS IT? Is "a comfortable bathroom experience" something a person gets to demand or not? Because it can't something SOME people get to demand and others don't.
Why do transpeople deserve a more comfortable bathroom experience than cispeople? This is not an idle or unreasonable question.