With out that it seems hard to grasp what the supposed problem here is. Either showing around naked pictures with out permission is a problematic behavior or it isn't.
The problem is the refusal to state just who is supposedly supporting the idea of revenge porn when this story had nothing to do with revenge porn. Yes, showing around naked pictures without consent is problematic.
People are not being at all clear on what the supposed bad thing that happened here was other than his behavior.
Uh, the 20 or so other guys who were falsely accused. Remember the list on the bathroom wall when this whole incident snowballed into a massive gong show?
And if intoxication is relevant why bring it up at all, what next bring up the lighting quality?
Intoxication impairs one's judgement which was no doubt a factor in this guy's decision to betray his then girlfriend's confidence. I'm unaware of lighting conditions having the same effect.