Thermal
August Member
I reread the wiki page for non-binary genderWP and now it is perfectly clear to me what's going on. If you don't identify solely with the class of people who produce sperm and you don't identify solely with the class of people who were born with ova, then you may consider yourself non-binary, regardless of whether you personally produce sperm or ova, whether you consider yourself transgender, and whether you accept the idea of gender identity in the first place. It's all perfectly straightforward, so long as you understand what it means to identify oneself.
There it is. See, "identify" is invariably the term used. Why do you suppose that might be?
Because it doesn't mean anything. In context, it literally means less than nothing. A vague, wishy-washy term that sounds all proper and official.
When the rubber hits the road, what other traits does one get to choose to identify with? Can I be a black woman? An irrisistable hottie? Short? Tall? Thin? Muscular? Older? Younger?
It means nothing. And that's what causes the frustration and mocking. Not at the idea of a gay or trans person, but this vague subjective feeling that is supposed to make things clearer and inarguable "unless you are some kind of intolerant bigot".
Then we prance on to the slippery term "gender", which gets equivocated all over the map to mean something or nothing or whatever someone makes up for convenience. Again, in practical terms, it has little to no meaning. "What society thinks someone of a given sex is like" is empty rhetoric. Literally everyone swerved a little side to side away from what the "societal gender role" is.
By the way: who determines exactly what that role is, or is it *gritting teeth again* another one of those vague subjective feelings?
If you have some sort of gender dysphoria, that's a thing. If you have gender dysphoria, but don't like the connotation so you just reword it to something that sounds more palatable, that's a cop out.
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