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Of course, the question becomes is such a hardship actually useful in any way. Is society served well by putting otherwise good students into situations where they are more likely to fail for purely financial reasons? Is it a good thing that someone less dedicated than you were would not have made it? Is a student failing out because they can't balance their studies and a full time job a useful culling of the student population?
Struggle for the sake of struggle has no societal value, but our puritanical nation loves it.
There's a scene at the end of West Wing episode 20 hours in America where Toby and Josh meet a man in a Indiana hotel bar who accompanied his daughter on a tour of Notre Dame. He was concerned that he wouldn't be able to pay for it. He talked about hard it was to make enough money to pay for his daughter's college. He said he didn't mind it was hard, but did it have to be this hard? If it could be just a little easier.
This idea that struggle is good and builds character has merit. But frankly, I'm sick of hearing it from people who's struggle has been minor to non-existent. You can only put so many straws on the back of your beast of burden before the animal will quit or collapse.
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