Emily's Cat
Rarely prone to hissy-fits
Emily - I've generally been on your "side" (again I hate using that term and concept within a discussion with as much variance and nuance as this one but such is as it is...) but you define your..... femininity I guess why too much via the hardships your sex has to face.
Basically you always seem to come back to acting as if people aren't real women if they aren't having their lives constantly made worse just by being women. Like you aren't a woman until you suffer because you're a woman.
You are not defined by your struggles and trials as much as you think you are, especially not on the biological sex and social gender.
Having men hate you. Being scared of rape. Being discriminated because of your gender. These don't make you a woman.
Would you make that same statement to a black person, who repeatedly comes back to the challenges and barriers they face as a black person being an intrinsic element of their lived experience and their identity as a black person in the US?