Boudicca90
Muse
Tell you what - if I can't tell you're male, and I don't see your penis, then I'm not going to be worried about it now, am I?
But that's not where you stop - you insist that people who ARE visibly male and masculine, people who DO NOT make sure they're respectful and stay covered - should have unfettered access to female spaces. You want to force females to accept into their midst not just decent, caring sensitive transwomen who are trying to get by in a world that doesn't understand them... but also all of the creeptastic, fetishistic, misogynistic, males that do nothing more than declare themselves a woman and expect that females can have no say about it. Do you really expect that because Jessica Yaniv has "decided" that they are a "woman", I should be forced to allow her and her balls into any female-space they wish? Do you actually think that there is anything remotely approaching justice and civil liberty in allowing that Long Chu person who believes that the essence of womanhood is being a vessel for another person's desire to have access to female private areas? Really?
If you would draw a reasonable line and at least *pretend* to give a crap about the disadvantages and challenges that females actually face in the real world... I would be a lot more sympathetic. Instead, however, you've made it perfectly care that you think females aren't as valuable as you, their voices don't matter, their challenges are beneath you. Your feelings are more important than our safety.
And here is where you use a few insane bullies to speak for all of us. Jessica Yaniv and Andrea Long Chu do not speak for all transgender people and have little to no support. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if people took a cis woman who drowned her children as an example of all cis women, or a Black man who looted a store as an example of all Black people (even though plenty of people do that, hence the need for BLM), but that is exactly what you are doing to us.
These people that you keep using as examples of us are extreme outliers, in actual trans communities we are just men and women like any other. Not the freaks and perverts you keep trying to paint us as.
Penises are not female organs. Vaginas are not male organs. How you feel about yourself does not change reality, and it is irrational to demand that everyone else pretend that it does.
Your feelings should not be held as more important than my safety, privacy, and rights.
I don't see a penis as inherently male or female, it's just a body part and doesn't have a gender of it's own. I definitely don't call it a "girldick" or anything like that, which again is something I've never heard anywhere in real life. Just more stereotypes of us.
Again: As much as you may believe your safety, privacy, and rights are in danger - they simply just aren't. They are feelings as well.
Self ID isn't a new idea, and there haven't been issues from it in anywhere where it's the law. It doesn't even affect me personally at this point because I already did everything the hard way before it went into effect. But I do have friends who would definitely benefit from it and so that's why I think it is important.