This.
Especially the highlighted.
Why do girls get the princess pink fluffy wuffy stuff, why can't boys play with dolls and fluffy wuffy stuff too?
etc etc etc.
Gender is what we are pressured to do as we grow up, I would like to see what would happen if we weren't.
This whole gender self focus thing might just disappear as no one would care anymore, be yourself... the stereotypes have gone.
What drove it home for me, and I've mentioned this before probably in this thread, was when Target both got rid of gendered toys (i.e. no longer had distinct, labeled "boys" and "girls" toy sections in its stores) and implemented a policy of "You can use the bathroom of the gender of your choosing" for it's store restroom.
Does anyone else notice that those two problems... use the other problem as their solution in a perfect loop?
Gender Role 1: "Certain toys are being labeled for boys and girls.
Solution: "Get rid of the labeling."
Gender Role 2: "Bathrooms are labeled via biological sex, not gender."
Solution: "Keep the labeling, but let people choose which label applies to them."
Why not tell the little boys and girls in the toy aisle "We'll keep the boys and girls labels, but it's okay because you can just identify as whatever gender you want." Why is that the problem for one thing but the solution for the other and vice versa?