This is not directed at you specifically, but at everyone who attempts to use this as an argument.
Liberals seem to love the concept of redistribution of wealth... but they also seem to hate it in action. Where do the wealthiest people live? Oh yeah - almost all of them are in dense urban areas. Those dense urban areas tend to be more blue overall. "Blue States" are, on the whole, states with large densely populated cities - New York, California, Denver, Seattle, etc. Therefore, those states will be net contributors to the zero-sum pot of money that represents the balance of government taxation and dispensation. "Red States" tend to be states with larger rural populations, and with smaller and less densely populated areas, and tend to have significantly fewer wealthy people. Therefore those states will be net receivers of the zero-sum calculation of federal redistribution.
So what's the deal? Do you want to increase tax on the wealthy? Do you want to help the poor? Or do you want to increase tax on wealthy republicans and redistribute those funds to poor democrats? Are people who live in red states just not the right kind of poor people for you? Is it only poor people in blue states that merit your compassion, and the rest can go rot because they don't think the right way?
Egads. The disconnect between the profoundly held belief that money should be redistributed from the wealthy to the poor and the complaint that poor states get more money redistributed to them from wealthy states is just mind boggling.