That's exactly what I mean. People with children say they have everything I have, plus the miracle of children. People who take LSD say they have everything I have, plus drug experiences/insight.
Yes, children do enhance life and promote growth. Even entheogens can do that. But that merely argues my point.
What they don't accept is that I can say the same thing. A theist will never know the pride and satisfaction and amazement of putting social conditioning aside and truly trying to learn about the real world. Someone not into history will never know what it's like to be certain that research is one's calling and spend a lifetime uncovering facts.
Someone who has found his calling is indeed living life at a new level. That calling can be spiritual too. One can be called to become a minister of religion, a theologian. I'm talking here though about the larger worldview that comes from spiritual awareness. That is something else again. A fundamentalist Christian may have a calling to be a musician and find great fulfilment through it. His worldview is still rather limited though.
It sounds lame, I'm sure, but the glories of theism sound lame to me.
You've been staring at your straw man for so long you think it's the real thing. You're reacting to a caricature of religion, focusing on its worst aspects, either ignorant of or ignoring all that is best in it. Much of religion has been hijacked by fundamentalist movements and all kinds of distortions of scriptures, themselves barely understood and misread by most believers. It's easy to build straw men out of that lot, because most of it
is straw, fit only to be burned. But within each religion, including Christianity, is a living beating esoteric heart, which gives life to the rest of the body, even though it is barely tolerated by the exoteric majority. Theology has its glories too, as does ministry, healing, fellowship, charity work and many other aspects of the life of the church.
People are different. Religion is attractive to many, whether it's radical Islam or the Salvation Army. I don't begrudge them their happiness, if they don't take away others' happiness.
That's a reasonable attitude.
I've never had a moment's doubt about what the purpose of my life was, and have pursued it ceaselessly and have felt rewarded, but that's just me. I'd be silly to say that if only everyone spent a week at the Library of Richmond, they'd find true happiness and know they were fulfilling life's purpose, even though that's how it feels to me.
I'm glad you seem to have found your purpose. But do you then say that life has no purpose? Because when you say things like 'I've never had a moment's doubt about what the purpose of my life was' you sound as if you are admitting that there
is such as thing as purpose, which I equated in part with meaning.