In the same way that noticing that the man in the black suit actually has a rabbit up his sleeve. If you can watch an illusory sense of self being constructed, in this case through attending to thought narratives, and then deconstructed, you no longer believe in an observer.
Ah so “If you can watch…” then “you no longer believe in an observer”. Heck, even if you don’t or can’t watch you can still “no longer believe in an observer” and at least that maintains some semblance of self-consistency.
If that's your reality, then that's your reality. If you search your subjective awareness and find an "I" then great.
Exactly “great”, so one can examine the assumption and still find an “I”, thus the “I” doesn’t come from an unexamined assumption as you asserted.
I'm saying there's no observer of it. Observation is more tricky.
No, only “more tricky” if one wants to just be self-inconsistent.
In using language, from early childhood, we learn to tie these words together, to the point where it seems that observation must mean the existence of an observer. It doesn't.
“language, from early childhood,”?!? The words are tied together by their etymology and root meaning. All of which predate our “early childhood” considerably
http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=observation
http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=observer
http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=observe
Yes, absolutely we have a sense of those things and yes they are highly necessary to function well and get needs met. This infers only that they are favoured not that they are necessarily real.
Oh now “absolutely we have a sense of those things” before it was just an “illusory sense of self being constructed”. In what sense is a sense that we absolutely have “illusory”? A far as senses go just having the sense makes it really a sense, while again the source of that sensory information may be misattributed.
It is constructed in language, yes. And those parts are functioning, yes.
But this does not mean that the illusion they create has ontological validity.
Well, technically it is constructed in the brain as information processing (neurological impulses), language being just one aspect of that and again it is the information and processing that has “ontological validity” even if its source can at times be misattributed.
Feedback loops do not give an "I" validity in the context of being an observer.
Again as stated a feedback loop enables self-observation and so gives self-observation “validity”.
You don't feel threatened? Fair enough. That's how you are.
Well, I’ve certainly been threatened and have felt threatened at times but someone just trying to insult me doesn’t even come close.
However, perhaps you could try a little experiment. Please walk down the street to your nearest pub or bar. Go in there and say to someone "You're a complete idiot". Then, if they act defensively in any way recommend that they visit the nearest mental health clinic. Feel free to do this enough times for results to be statistically valid and report back.
Have you forgotten what your assertion was? It wasn’t that people might act defensively if insulted it was that…
“the instinctual part of the brain that's programmed to respond defensively to threats... it can't distinguish between a physical threat and an ego threat.”
So to do your experiment you would have to threaten people’s egos, threaten them physically and then see if they can distinguish between those threats. I don’t recommend you try it under uncontrolled conditions.
I'm willing to bet you have some bruises. (Unless, perhaps, it's the case that you're a 6'6" ex military type.)
Heck, even “6'6" ex military” types bruise (including their egos).
My point is that ego threats are usually treated much the same way as physical threats.
While people responding in kind (ego defense for ego threat and physical defense for physical) ain’t always the case generally people can identify different types of threats (as well as non-threats) and respond accordingly. There can also be a bit of crossover as someone might use a physical threat (feint a punch) as an ego threat by seeking a physical response (get you to flinch).
Maybe for you there are no ego threats and when you observe inside you find an actual "I" there, doing stuff and observing.
Maybe for you “when you observe inside you find” you just aren’t, well, “observing”. However that is simply being self-inconsistent.